Wow! That is unbelievable that she is already spayed. So someone cared enough to spay her then abandoned her. Poor thing. She is so lucky to have you.
Strange that if she was part of the litter in August that she was taken, spayed and returned. Maybe someone took her home from the barn, and got all of her shots/spay, etc. and then realized they didn't want a kitten and brought her back and left her there? :dk: OR yes, a dump off.Here's how much fur they took off from her side
They shaved a lot of her neck and chin too. Don't know what they did, but the fur's all matted with some sort of dried up fluid. I'll have to try and clean her up later, but I want her settled first.
Think she's coming round a bit - she's been up and down the ladder to her room, and on and off my bedroom windowsill for bird watching duty [emoji]128572[/emoji]
Add me into this category..... I do the same. It is always SO helpful and reviving to be able to vent here in our thread, right??!!! And not to be judged. :nod: I am glad that things are more even keeled at the moment with your mum and your being able to gently convince her to agree on keeping the litter box in the office and Asha's cushion. A little give and take on both sides will help to settle, calm the waters, and make everyone feel that their concerns are valid. Again, I will say, I think you are doing such a marvelous and tremendous job being mediator between your mum and your beloved pets. There are going to be those ups/downs on both side now and again. It just happens. I still have to manage that time and again with my DH trying to keep things running smoothly for him and all of our pets.I tend to panic every so often over nothing. Being able to vent while you stayed calm at the other side of a screen really helped