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I mentioned on the boards that I recently adopted a street cat. Her name is Elsa. I have another cat that is very sweet, and loves being petted, and will rub her body on my legs. I am not an overly affectionate person. But i like spending a few minutes a day petting my cat Kitty.
But with Elsa, everytime I try to pet her she runs in terror. Oddly enough, she lets my mom touch her without fear. My mom even touches her belly. I think this might be because she sleeps on my moms bed, since i have allergies, i dont let the cats on my bed.
It makes me so sad that she flinches when I pet her. What can i do?
NOTE: I pet her softly, i dont overstimulate her, by petting her like crazy. I just pet her head, and back softly, like i have always done to Kitty.
She trusts me enough that my room is one of her hiding spots. She hangs out in my moms room, my room, living room, and kitchen. She never goes to any other bedroom in the house, even though there are a couple more. Im living with family right now.
But with Elsa, everytime I try to pet her she runs in terror. Oddly enough, she lets my mom touch her without fear. My mom even touches her belly. I think this might be because she sleeps on my moms bed, since i have allergies, i dont let the cats on my bed.
It makes me so sad that she flinches when I pet her. What can i do?
NOTE: I pet her softly, i dont overstimulate her, by petting her like crazy. I just pet her head, and back softly, like i have always done to Kitty.
She trusts me enough that my room is one of her hiding spots. She hangs out in my moms room, my room, living room, and kitchen. She never goes to any other bedroom in the house, even though there are a couple more. Im living with family right now.
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