Some of you know that I have been having problems with this jerk on my volleyball team and that I quit.
Anyways, I told him that I think he is mean, and that some people have complained about his attitude and now he is going around paging my friends, going to their house trying to find out who complained about him.
I can not tell him who did complain because this person saw him using his girlfriend as a punching bag, and thats why he quit the team that day. A total of 7 people have quit the team.
He also punched one of the girls on the team and in his search to find who complained about him, he sent her a message which she copied and pasted to me, he said something along the lines of "you know that when I punched you, it was just for fun" I had never said anything to him about punching anyone.
Do you think he is in a panic because I know his game? Why would someone so obsessively look for who complained to me? Should I say anything to him? I do have a copy of the conversation I had with him and I showed it to the girl I had been talking to - now he wants to visit her and show her a copy
She asked if it was okay that she tell him she has already read it.
I have been there for his girlfriend so many times, through their problems - and I told her to kick him to the curb but she said he needs "love, understanding, patience, etc - especially after all the stuff he has done to her. He has even posted looking for a girlfriend on a dating site. While he is still in a relationship with her.
What would you guys do? I have put him on block on any IM's. But I am getting all these messages from others and I hate that he is doing that just to find out who complained.
Any ideas are so much appreciated.
Anyways, I told him that I think he is mean, and that some people have complained about his attitude and now he is going around paging my friends, going to their house trying to find out who complained about him.
I can not tell him who did complain because this person saw him using his girlfriend as a punching bag, and thats why he quit the team that day. A total of 7 people have quit the team.
He also punched one of the girls on the team and in his search to find who complained about him, he sent her a message which she copied and pasted to me, he said something along the lines of "you know that when I punched you, it was just for fun" I had never said anything to him about punching anyone.
Do you think he is in a panic because I know his game? Why would someone so obsessively look for who complained to me? Should I say anything to him? I do have a copy of the conversation I had with him and I showed it to the girl I had been talking to - now he wants to visit her and show her a copy
I have been there for his girlfriend so many times, through their problems - and I told her to kick him to the curb but she said he needs "love, understanding, patience, etc - especially after all the stuff he has done to her. He has even posted looking for a girlfriend on a dating site. While he is still in a relationship with her.
What would you guys do? I have put him on block on any IM's. But I am getting all these messages from others and I hate that he is doing that just to find out who complained.
Any ideas are so much appreciated.