Help! My almost 2 year old cat will not let me near her paws when its time for grooming. My 3 year old Sophie had no problems with having her nails cut. Lola since the beginning of me bringing her home would get aggressive to the point where shed bite, growl, and scratch me when Id try to cut her nails. Lola was what youd call in "transition" she was almost feral when I adopted her. Really aggressive in the beginning. Now shes a ham. I cannot afford to bring her to the vet every week or so for her grooming. That and although my vet handles pets who are or were feral and who display aggressive behavior and are difficult.Shes beginning to associate her grooming with her vet visits not good. Shed never had a problem with the vet til I bought her in for grooming. My vet is a very caring human being. Very empathetic and professional. We have tried everything but sedation. Calming sprays, treats,desensitization, exposure all to no avail. Im beginning to hate and dread our visits to the vet I think more than Lola. Ive heard people suggest sedation with their pets on here. I have spoken to my vet about trying this approach but am still concerned. Any tips and/or suggestions? Oh and now since I have trouble cutting Lola's nails my eldest Sophie is getting difficult. I had no problems whatsoever with grooming Sophie in the past. Any information would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!