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In 2010, when Flash was nearing the end (I was waiting for the vet to come over to euthanize him), I took pictures of him laying there looking so tired, so sad, so depressed. If he was going through this then it was something I wanted to keep with me - it was part of his life and, in a sense, it shows that I was NOT abandoning him. That through good time and bad, I was there for him and loved him no matter his state of health. If he was suffering I wanted to suffer with him. His life wasn't just the good times, it was the bad, and both are important to me because both were part of him.
That said, when I inadvertently caused Back to go into cardiac arrest, I had no time to say goodbye, I didn't take pictures of his last day, I was not able to hold him and comfort him. When his body was brought to me I had to make a decision - do I keep a physical memory of this moment or do I let it fade away. It was difficult, but I took pictures of Back, his eyes wide open and vacant, his mouth slightly agape. I caused his death and in a sense don't ever want to be able to let go of that moment, maybe it's a form of punishment, maybe it's a way of saying I am sorry, maybe it's simply the very last time I ever got to see him (I buried him that night).
I don't look at the pics if I can help it - I just know they are there. But, tonight while transferring some files I did see them. It was... difficult. Very difficult. I told him I was sorry and asked him to forgive me. He can't, obviously, and I wondered whether I would have taken the pictures if his death had been from euthanasia rather than an accident. I think I would take them. Not to look at them, but to have moments of time with him both during his life and after.
That said, when I inadvertently caused Back to go into cardiac arrest, I had no time to say goodbye, I didn't take pictures of his last day, I was not able to hold him and comfort him. When his body was brought to me I had to make a decision - do I keep a physical memory of this moment or do I let it fade away. It was difficult, but I took pictures of Back, his eyes wide open and vacant, his mouth slightly agape. I caused his death and in a sense don't ever want to be able to let go of that moment, maybe it's a form of punishment, maybe it's a way of saying I am sorry, maybe it's simply the very last time I ever got to see him (I buried him that night).
I don't look at the pics if I can help it - I just know they are there. But, tonight while transferring some files I did see them. It was... difficult. Very difficult. I told him I was sorry and asked him to forgive me. He can't, obviously, and I wondered whether I would have taken the pictures if his death had been from euthanasia rather than an accident. I think I would take them. Not to look at them, but to have moments of time with him both during his life and after.