Allow me to formally introduce Mr.Biggie Smalls (LRG Maine Coon mix) and Mr.Teriyaki.
About myself- Had MANY FEMALE cats from birth to age 15, Hand raised many litters in that time. Now at 24 I have two Males.
I am going to ask my questions FIRST, in case no one wants to read the entire book I just wrote about my babies. Scroll down to get some backround.
1.) Biggie (the oldest), lets the young one run over him, he won't play with toys if he knows the kitten is close. Teriyaki is not good at sharing and will simply go after any toy that's making noise or moving. He isn't aggressive and it doesn't seem he's doing it to prove any sort of point but, he just REALLY wants to play with that thing! This has left me very concerned with Biggie and his stimulation. He seems to also be okay with the kitten playing with the toys in front of him as well. It's very similar in my opinion to be a brother type thing. If we try to keep the small one entertained in another room when the older one is in play mode, He'll play for a small time but, then goes in search of his little brother. I'm just not sure what to do here, Biggie was pretty playful until I brought his brother home. I feel like this isn't normal. Anything I can try?
Another thing is food, I feed them wet a couple times a day and dry is always left out for them. The kitten will leave his half way through to go find Biggie and eat on his as well. Biggie doesn't like that. He'll growl a few times but, then just go and find Teriyaki's food. Again, doesn't seem like a dominance thing (the SO seems to think so), seems like he just wants to do EVERYTHING Biggie does. Unless he's trying to cuddle with us, he's going to find Biggie and cuddle him. Could this depress Biggie?
2.) We went out of town for 3 days for thanksgiving, My mother came over daily to feed and give them some attention daily. Once I got back, Biggie has been exceptionally loveable. Only towards me but, he's only really every been that way. Not very sociable, especially with other people. Before I left, I could only get some love once, maybe twice a day. Now mind you, he still followed me room to room. Don't get me wrong, I am not complaining! I love all the attention he's been giving me but, I am concerned he may have had some emotional issues and it's making it harder to still do kitty things.
Neither of them fight for my attention or anything like that. They enjoy very much for all three of us be cuddled on my bed together. Have I broke my cat? lol Is this normal?
3.) These two are COMPLETELY different cats. Biggie is large and laid back. Teriyaki is small and HYPER. However, they are extremely affectionate towards each other. I've never seen unrelated cats as loveable as them. Besides the following around, I've seen no signs of competition yet. I know they are still young but, Biggie is DEFINITELY sexually matured or VERY close to it. His urine has changed to that very smelly spraying stuff. He has not sprayed on anything, he actually spays inside the litter box. Sometimes he won't cover it but, he does almost every time. They've both mounted each other a few times but, they cut that out pretty quickly. Now, I know, Why have I not neutered him yet? Well, Not all males spray and if there is not a good reason I need to have my cats get surgery, then it's not happening. Don't see the point in hurting them because of what MAY happen. They are both completely indoor cats. Biggie was terrified of being outside (still kind of is), I guess all the smells and noises. He will actually walk on a leash and quite enjoys it at night. I don't do it often because sometimes a male or two makes it into our apartments. Do I need to prepare for them being competitive? What can I do to prevent it from being too extreme?
I guess those are my main concerns. If anyone has any advice not completely relevant to my questions, I am open to that as well! As time goes on my confidence is getting lower (it may just be me, recently disabled)
Off topic, Biggie is terrified of my ceiling fan? We never had one until this OCT. If it's off he will barely even enter the room, then at other times he just randomly looks at it and gets very skiddish and runs away. If he hears another fan somewhere else in the house start, he thinks it's the ceiling fan and again freaks out! I've brought him eye level with it, so he could smell it. I gave him treats while it was turned off and, spun it slowly with my hands, too which he didn't give a crap about the treats and took off. I know other people have had their cats afraid at first but, it's still an every day occurrence..
Suggestions?
Mr.Biggie Smalls, Age: aprox. 8 Months. I found him by following what I had first thought to be a garage sale on my way home from work. "FREE KITTENS", was what it actually said. Decided I wanted to stop and cuddle them for a bit since my boyfriend and I disagreed on adopting. Well.... Once I arrived, there were MANY 'stray' cats running around. Met the woman around back, greeted me and then pointed to a plastic carrier in some obscure corner that had old furniture cluttering it (This was a very nice residence, not trashy as I may have painted here.). Now, I live in Texas, The exact date was May 6th 2014, it was pretty warm out, low 90's I believe. I look into this carrier to see one itty bitty baby all by himself terrified in the corner just starring at me. It was love at first no doubt!
Safe to say, He was certainly a very unique kitty. He was only 4 MAYBE 5 when I got him. I had, had no intentions of actually taking him in the beginning but, after chatting with the lady about how he arrived into the world, and basic questions about him, I realized she was lying about everything. Trying to get me to take him. Once I removed him from the CAGE, I noticed he was covered in urine. I sent a picture to my SO and it was a yes! He's been the most intelligent cat I've ever had. Not ONE litter accident, no scratching anything, no obsessive midnight meowing. Just perfect. I grew up in a home with an animal hoarder (sort of, took in strays that were hurt or needed a warm place to sleep). Needless to say, we almost ALWAYS had a fresh litter at any given time. Believe me, looking back, I see how irresponsible that was but, I was also a child and knew no better and couldn't really do much about it besides love the kitties. Almost all the indoor cats were females, never had many males stay around the house but, I became very adept in the ways of caring for kittens, so taking care of him physically was certainly no issue. I did however feel he was not as playful or as interactive with us as cats I had 9/10 years ago. I had assumed at first, of course he just needed to adjust, he want from the street life with other cats, to zero cats in a quite apartment. The first week was TOUGH, he would barely eat, barely move around. I was quite afraid he was very ill. The first picture was a few days after I got him, see if he'd perk up if he went outside. Sure enough he did for a little while. Took him to the vet to make sure he wasn't ill, Vet couldn't give a definite age because of him being a maine coon mix, (I recently found he is almost half, that I know of).
Okay, SORRY I am going WAAAAY in depth here, He was a pretty loner type of kitty but, once we were all home, he was a playful little thing. Mostly playing tag with my daughter and I. Chase us down, bop us on the head and tear arse into the other room and hide. Still at this point, He'd only give us super love once a day! I was also working so none of us were home for about 9 hours a day.
Now, I kind of babied the crap out of him because he was just so little and alone. I held him and talk to him A LOT. He still follows me like a lost dog!
Mr. Teriyaki, Age: Aprox. 4 1/2 months. He was, in the wal-mart parking lot.... With a woman and a child and a sign "FREE KITTENS", of course I couldn't resist. I went to play. They had been out there for two days trying to give them away. Only got 1 of the 3 a home. A female and a male. The story of this litter was, the woman found the litter when they were about 2 weeks old on the school playground. She thought the mother was coming back but, didn't want to leave them there, so she took them.... =( Not the best decision in my book but, her intentions were good. Not positive if the story was true or not. I stood with them for about an hour talking about them and their up bringing, For some reason, she was getting a lot more people approach her since I had come over to play with them. She said, she bottle feed them since she got them, and she had a few dogs and cats already at home but, the kittens were malnourished for sure, So I am not sure if she was actually feeding them the right stuff or right way. They were also covered in fleas and felt like maybe they had worms. After seeing some of the people who were interested in the kittens, none of them could even handle the kittens correctly. In the end, I decided to take the male after a very nice family took the female. I had no intention on keeping him. Was going to get him into good health and find him a good home, which I thought would be better then some random person at walmart.
First day, in the Parking lot.
I had him flea free in a week thanks to NO carpet and diatomaceous earth! He's been a very rambunctious fella since the day I brought him home. Scared of nothing but, baths! Extremely loveable, instant purr factory when you pick him up. However, he was quite difficult to train. Still having a lot of issues with jumping on counters and tables. Scratches a little on other things besides the posts but, he's getting better! I honestly thought that he was not all there in his little kitty head or was malnourished so young, it hurt his growth. He's a small framed cat, slender and long and just all over the place. Happiest little ball of energy I ever saw.
Day 1 of the boys meeting, Teriyaki, instantly ran up to Biggie and started rubbing and trying to play. Biggie freaked out and ran away scared. Biggie would follow Teriyaki around non-stop and would cry if he lost sight of him but, would not interact with him (staking out the kitty I guess). The humans were completely ignored at this point, even food wasn't as important as following the kitten around.
After a few days Biggie finally started interacting with Teriyaki. Now, Obviously they are best friends.... They sleep like that everyday.