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Just found this site on my quest to get some answers for a litter box issue, and now I'm going to cover everything....lol.
We have 3 kitties. Belphagor ("Bel") is a 4 yr old neutered male. He is my son's cat. My son LOVES this cat.... Part of the problem is that my son went away to college this year. He can't take his beloved kitty with him in the dorm. For weeks after my son left, Bel would wander around the house meowing incessantly. About a month or so ago, he finally stopped and now he has become really needy towards me. He constantly wants attention but he hates being picked up. It's like "pet me but don't touch me..." Anyway, twice this past week we have caught him peeing on the floor (not spraying) outside the litter box. Tonight we grabbed a black light and went over the carpet because my daughter said her room smelled like pee. She has my son's room while he is gone to college. There was pee in several places on the carpet. Ugh....I'm pretty sure it's Bel that has done this dastardly deed. We tried to clean it up and added a 2nd litter box in the room where the most pee was located. Most of the pee is located either in my son's room or right next to the [main] litter box in the living room.
Lily is our second kitty. She is a 15 month old spayed shelter rescue. I got her when she was barely weaned (about 4 weeks old). Being separated from her mother so early caused so compulsive behavior (like sucking on blankets) and separation anxiety. She gets really upset if I go behind a closed door. She will meow incessantly at the door until I let her in. If I close the door after I let her in, she meows at the door until I open it again. Drives me insane. She also likes to chew on fingers and is generally a 'nervous' cat.
Loki is a 5 month old neutered kitten that a crack addict dumped on my daughter at the gas station. He barely had his eyes open when she brought him home because she didn't want to just leave him in the gas station parking lot. We bottlefed him until he was weaned. Got him neutered as soon as he was old enough... Loki is just plain nuts... He gets into EVERYTHING. We keep the garbage under the kitchen sink. He has learned how to open the cabinets to get into the garbage. He will jump on the table and counters for food...even while you are eating it. My husband gets so angry that he threatens to kill him. Problem is that my daughter LOVES this cat.... She had another cat earlier this year that had to be put down because she refused to use a litter box, despite our best attempts at fixing the problem. Besides the getting-into-stuff problem, Loki loves to torment Belphagor. Once in a while, Bel will play with Loki but most of the time, he gets really angry that Loki won't leave him alone.
So I really don't want my son OR daughter to lose their beloved pets. I'm going to take Bel to the vet to make sure he doesn't have a UTI....but outside of that, there's a couple of clues as to why he might be peeing outside of the box.... The hard part is figuring out what to do about it. I figure these are the possible reasons why he might be inappropriate peeing:
1. He misses my son and is feeling insecure because he's gone and someone 'else' is in his room. Nothing I can do about this if it's the problem. My daughter doesn't have another room to use...
2. Loki's harassment is making him insecure, angry, (or jealous because he plays with Lily).
My husband is not a very tolerant or cat-friendly man. I have to figure out how to fix the problem of peeing outside the litter box or he is INSIST the cat goes, gets put down, or whatever...he won't care.
We have 3 kitties. Belphagor ("Bel") is a 4 yr old neutered male. He is my son's cat. My son LOVES this cat.... Part of the problem is that my son went away to college this year. He can't take his beloved kitty with him in the dorm. For weeks after my son left, Bel would wander around the house meowing incessantly. About a month or so ago, he finally stopped and now he has become really needy towards me. He constantly wants attention but he hates being picked up. It's like "pet me but don't touch me..." Anyway, twice this past week we have caught him peeing on the floor (not spraying) outside the litter box. Tonight we grabbed a black light and went over the carpet because my daughter said her room smelled like pee. She has my son's room while he is gone to college. There was pee in several places on the carpet. Ugh....I'm pretty sure it's Bel that has done this dastardly deed. We tried to clean it up and added a 2nd litter box in the room where the most pee was located. Most of the pee is located either in my son's room or right next to the [main] litter box in the living room.
Lily is our second kitty. She is a 15 month old spayed shelter rescue. I got her when she was barely weaned (about 4 weeks old). Being separated from her mother so early caused so compulsive behavior (like sucking on blankets) and separation anxiety. She gets really upset if I go behind a closed door. She will meow incessantly at the door until I let her in. If I close the door after I let her in, she meows at the door until I open it again. Drives me insane. She also likes to chew on fingers and is generally a 'nervous' cat.
Loki is a 5 month old neutered kitten that a crack addict dumped on my daughter at the gas station. He barely had his eyes open when she brought him home because she didn't want to just leave him in the gas station parking lot. We bottlefed him until he was weaned. Got him neutered as soon as he was old enough... Loki is just plain nuts... He gets into EVERYTHING. We keep the garbage under the kitchen sink. He has learned how to open the cabinets to get into the garbage. He will jump on the table and counters for food...even while you are eating it. My husband gets so angry that he threatens to kill him. Problem is that my daughter LOVES this cat.... She had another cat earlier this year that had to be put down because she refused to use a litter box, despite our best attempts at fixing the problem. Besides the getting-into-stuff problem, Loki loves to torment Belphagor. Once in a while, Bel will play with Loki but most of the time, he gets really angry that Loki won't leave him alone.
So I really don't want my son OR daughter to lose their beloved pets. I'm going to take Bel to the vet to make sure he doesn't have a UTI....but outside of that, there's a couple of clues as to why he might be peeing outside of the box.... The hard part is figuring out what to do about it. I figure these are the possible reasons why he might be inappropriate peeing:
1. He misses my son and is feeling insecure because he's gone and someone 'else' is in his room. Nothing I can do about this if it's the problem. My daughter doesn't have another room to use...
2. Loki's harassment is making him insecure, angry, (or jealous because he plays with Lily).
My husband is not a very tolerant or cat-friendly man. I have to figure out how to fix the problem of peeing outside the litter box or he is INSIST the cat goes, gets put down, or whatever...he won't care.