restraint? hard time applying soft claws

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Help! I need to get these on & keep them on!  I took Malachy to a groomer to have them applied the first time & figured I could keep them up after that (on Friday - today is Sunday) - he was soooo bad, she had me help as she could not do it alone.  Two out 10 have already come off already.  He was crazy insane over the application ...like a wild animal ...the sounds he made were unworldly ...he has to have them on in his new home or I can't keep him.  ( I moved back in with my husband 6 weeks ago - we have a dog - I got the cat after originally moving out last spring.) 

Malachy scratched the dog's eye last week - the two of them are actually doing good together - it happened because the dog startled the cat, it wasn't  bullying.  But it could have been serious - fortunately it was not.  However, it can't happen again.  I have to keep these things on or I will either have to surrender him or move out again. I love my husband of course & our dog ...but I love Malachy too & don't want to loose him. He goes crazy when I try to handle his feet.  He is fine once the Soft Claws are on, no bother at all ...but I need to be able to restrain him safely & keep myself safe too.  I'll try to get my husband to help but it would be unrealistic to call a friend every other day to help put a cap or 2 on.  Not sure why they are coming off already after 2 days when I read all the success stories here about them.  I have watched videos & like I said - helped the groomer apply them.  Malachy is 2 &1/2 and came from a shelter.  I have had him 8 months. He scratches walls & furniture too ...there is a lot of wood work here which I did not have in my apartment & he finds it very appealing. Hubby has no tolerance for this but the dog's safety is the primary concern.

edited to add:  he is good for vet care & also accepts brushing plus I get him butt clipped and he is pretty good for that ...just goes bizerk with having his feet/toes handled.  I'm trying to play with his feet a bit every chance I get when he is calm & sleepy ...maybe with time this will help.
 
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bump ...wrong board? unclear question?
 
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I've had dog and cat fights  a lot over the years and have NEVER had a cat scratch one in the eye. I guess what I'm trying to say is it was a fluke and most likely won't happen again. How about your husband controlling his dog? I would NEVER let my husband dictate to me like that, he should work with you to try to find a solution. As for the scratching the furniture, get some of those corrugated cat scratchers, mine have totally left the furniture alone, they LOVE them! Your cat loves you and depends on you, would your husband get rid of the dog so easily? Your cat is a member of the family, he can't be discarded because of a few behavioral problems that can be fixed if a little effort is applied. PLEASE try to work together and find a solution for all, my heart goes out to you. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers, good luck and I hope someone can come up with more solutions for you to try. 
 
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Thanks for the input ...the dog wasn't bothering the cat at the time the scratch occurred ...he just happened to causally come up behind the cat; the cat startled & swatted him and unfortunately the swat hit his eye.  The two of them actually get along pretty well.  But my husband is overly protective of the dog.  I do have lots of things for Mally to scratch on.  He has a chair that I had at my apartment that he could scratch all he wanted (and he did) but he hasn't touched it since we moved ...go figure.  He would go crazy all over that chair ...it doesn't hold the same charm now. 

Hoping for a few more responses ...thanks so much
 

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It takes time to get a cat used to getting its claws handled. It is a possible solution for your claw problem, but sounds like in this cat's case, it won't be an instant solution.
 
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It takes time to get a cat used to getting its claws handled. It is a possible solution for your claw problem, but sounds like in this cat's case, it won't be an instant solution.
no, I guess not, lol!
 
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