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Hello, I know I have not posted in a while but I guess that can be a good thing since it seems like things have been going good for a bit now.
But I do have a question I'm just not sure if this should be cause for concern or not. I know there are already a lot of posts about this and I have read them most saying it is normal but I could not find anyone who spoke of the exact specifications of what happened.
Okay so I have two cats, one male one female. They are both altered. My male has been altered since I got him about a year and a half ago. I think he was neutered around 8 months old and is about 2.5 years old now. My female was not spayed when I got her at about 6 months old but had surgery not long after.
Anyway these two cats have been together for about a year now and they get along great. They do wrestle around and play with eachother but nothing that causes harm to either of them. When I first got the female I was told she was actually younger than she was and she went into heat about a week after I got her. She was spayed right after.
So during that first time she went into heat I did notice my male try to mount her once or twice and actually bit her scruff the one time but I would just separate them and figured it was just instinct. So for over a year now he has never done this again that I was aware of.
The male does sometimes get a boner while grooming himself I guess if he gets over stimulated but he never even seems to notice. He has never mounted or trusted on me or any toy or anything except that one time. And when I pulled him away he did not seem to be "stimulated".
Well a little while ago as I was sitting on the couch and my female was asleep next to me he jumped up and looked like he was trying to mount her. I was like wth is he doing that just kind of pulled him away. 5 mins later he came back and was doing it again. I was really confused because he has never shown this type of behavior other than that one time.
So I pulled him off of her and when I looked down I realized he was "stimulated" and found it really odd since he is fixed and has never displayed this behavior at all since I got him and its been close to 2 years since his surgery.
And finally I would have to say the female is probably the dominant one although he was the resident cat when I got her, but he has never displayed any signs of aggression with her or signs he is fighting for control back.
I will take him to a vet if needed I just didn't know if I should be concerned. Thanks for any input.
But I do have a question I'm just not sure if this should be cause for concern or not. I know there are already a lot of posts about this and I have read them most saying it is normal but I could not find anyone who spoke of the exact specifications of what happened.
Okay so I have two cats, one male one female. They are both altered. My male has been altered since I got him about a year and a half ago. I think he was neutered around 8 months old and is about 2.5 years old now. My female was not spayed when I got her at about 6 months old but had surgery not long after.
Anyway these two cats have been together for about a year now and they get along great. They do wrestle around and play with eachother but nothing that causes harm to either of them. When I first got the female I was told she was actually younger than she was and she went into heat about a week after I got her. She was spayed right after.
So during that first time she went into heat I did notice my male try to mount her once or twice and actually bit her scruff the one time but I would just separate them and figured it was just instinct. So for over a year now he has never done this again that I was aware of.
The male does sometimes get a boner while grooming himself I guess if he gets over stimulated but he never even seems to notice. He has never mounted or trusted on me or any toy or anything except that one time. And when I pulled him away he did not seem to be "stimulated".
Well a little while ago as I was sitting on the couch and my female was asleep next to me he jumped up and looked like he was trying to mount her. I was like wth is he doing that just kind of pulled him away. 5 mins later he came back and was doing it again. I was really confused because he has never shown this type of behavior other than that one time.
So I pulled him off of her and when I looked down I realized he was "stimulated" and found it really odd since he is fixed and has never displayed this behavior at all since I got him and its been close to 2 years since his surgery.
And finally I would have to say the female is probably the dominant one although he was the resident cat when I got her, but he has never displayed any signs of aggression with her or signs he is fighting for control back.
I will take him to a vet if needed I just didn't know if I should be concerned. Thanks for any input.