I don't even think I have a question, I just need to get some of the pain off my chest.
We got her when about 6 years ago, when she was (we were told) 2 months old. She was a rescue, we got her from someone who had over 40 cats and kept them in terrible conditions. When we took her to the vet he said she is probably older but has been malnurished (she was so thin, full of fleas, her white coat was yellow at the time probably because she had been sleeping in wee)
Slowly we got her back into shape and for a couple of years she looked happy and healthy (albeit she had some terrible episodes, she once lost all the hair on her head due to ring worm and was very close to getting her leg amputated but we saved her with vit B shots and electrostimulation)
Then slowly she started to develop gingivitis. At the time we were living in Romania and the vet had very limited resources - however we tried steroids and interferon for her teeth with some results. I then moved to the UK and my boyfriend, now husband stayed with her behind. She started to develop chronic diarrhoea - she had these bouts of bloody poo from time to time but most of the time they were self limiting. Another year goes by and we bring her to the UK. She was generally ok until had another episode of vomiting/diarrhoea. The vet felt she has IBS and we started her on a hypoallergenic diet. That seemed to work, albeit she hates the hypoallergenic food and ate less but at least her stools were normal.
About 4 months ago she was doing really well, I was feeding her hypoallergenic food and raw or grilled meat. I was pregnant at the time and she begun weeing in different places. I think this is where I started to fail her. Instead of thinking it was her gingivitis acting up I thought it must be because of my pregnancy (as did our cat minder) as she was still eating fine. I had the baby and in the midst of everything she became flea infested (we were using Bob Martin, yet another mistake) and had to wash her, which she has always found traumatizing. Additionally I didn't allow her to sleep in our room, which she's always done, partly because of the fleas and partly because she tried to sleep on top of the baby (she has always slept on top of us, on our chest). She has always been a sensitive cat and I think she did not take this rejection well. She started to eat less and less. Three weeks ago we had my mom and my husband's mom come over from overseas and I think this stressed her even more. At this point she was losing weight and we had to try really hard to make her eat. I took her to the vet 10 days ago and the vet told us we can either try to remove her teeth (which I've been postponing, like an idiot, as we couldn't get her insured in the UK) or put her down as her gingivitis was really bad. She told us even removing the teeth might not fix the problem, as she still has IBS (or perhaps something else, we could not afford the 600 pounds investigations) and will never thrive. At the time she gave her pain relief to see if she will start eating (she didn't want to give her steroids as she felt she will start eating because of the steroids and we will not know if only the teeth are to blame). Some of you have been faced with this option and maybe you were better at choosing than I am. The surgery is scheduled for tomorrow morning but to this day I don't know if it's the right option. Our cat is even worse, she is now refusing all food (last week she had a few prawns) and has lost almost 30% of her body weight (she was 3 kg, now 2.1). She still drinks water but looks very unwell. She is hiding in the laundry room (but will sleep with us for a few hours if I bring her upstairs) most of the time. I have this overwhelming feeling I have failed her and maybe I am still failing her by choosing surgery and making her go through more pain than just putting her to sleep. I also feel I forgot about her a little when the baby came and that's when it all went downhill. I feel I should have had her surgery a year ago but couldn't afford it at the time (but what was I expecting, for the gingivitis to magically get better?!) I'm such an idiot.
Anyways. We took her to the vet again yesterday and asked for a steroid shot to get her to at least eat something before her surgery. The vet thought she might not survive the surgery but also felt we should try as she is a fairly young cat.
The steroids have not kicked in yet (or perhaps she is already over the edge) and she is still not eating anything and looking very confused and wobbly. I will take her to have her teeth extracted and hope whatever happens she will not be in a lot of pain.
I guess that's it. Thanks for reading.
We got her when about 6 years ago, when she was (we were told) 2 months old. She was a rescue, we got her from someone who had over 40 cats and kept them in terrible conditions. When we took her to the vet he said she is probably older but has been malnurished (she was so thin, full of fleas, her white coat was yellow at the time probably because she had been sleeping in wee)
Slowly we got her back into shape and for a couple of years she looked happy and healthy (albeit she had some terrible episodes, she once lost all the hair on her head due to ring worm and was very close to getting her leg amputated but we saved her with vit B shots and electrostimulation)
Then slowly she started to develop gingivitis. At the time we were living in Romania and the vet had very limited resources - however we tried steroids and interferon for her teeth with some results. I then moved to the UK and my boyfriend, now husband stayed with her behind. She started to develop chronic diarrhoea - she had these bouts of bloody poo from time to time but most of the time they were self limiting. Another year goes by and we bring her to the UK. She was generally ok until had another episode of vomiting/diarrhoea. The vet felt she has IBS and we started her on a hypoallergenic diet. That seemed to work, albeit she hates the hypoallergenic food and ate less but at least her stools were normal.
About 4 months ago she was doing really well, I was feeding her hypoallergenic food and raw or grilled meat. I was pregnant at the time and she begun weeing in different places. I think this is where I started to fail her. Instead of thinking it was her gingivitis acting up I thought it must be because of my pregnancy (as did our cat minder) as she was still eating fine. I had the baby and in the midst of everything she became flea infested (we were using Bob Martin, yet another mistake) and had to wash her, which she has always found traumatizing. Additionally I didn't allow her to sleep in our room, which she's always done, partly because of the fleas and partly because she tried to sleep on top of the baby (she has always slept on top of us, on our chest). She has always been a sensitive cat and I think she did not take this rejection well. She started to eat less and less. Three weeks ago we had my mom and my husband's mom come over from overseas and I think this stressed her even more. At this point she was losing weight and we had to try really hard to make her eat. I took her to the vet 10 days ago and the vet told us we can either try to remove her teeth (which I've been postponing, like an idiot, as we couldn't get her insured in the UK) or put her down as her gingivitis was really bad. She told us even removing the teeth might not fix the problem, as she still has IBS (or perhaps something else, we could not afford the 600 pounds investigations) and will never thrive. At the time she gave her pain relief to see if she will start eating (she didn't want to give her steroids as she felt she will start eating because of the steroids and we will not know if only the teeth are to blame). Some of you have been faced with this option and maybe you were better at choosing than I am. The surgery is scheduled for tomorrow morning but to this day I don't know if it's the right option. Our cat is even worse, she is now refusing all food (last week she had a few prawns) and has lost almost 30% of her body weight (she was 3 kg, now 2.1). She still drinks water but looks very unwell. She is hiding in the laundry room (but will sleep with us for a few hours if I bring her upstairs) most of the time. I have this overwhelming feeling I have failed her and maybe I am still failing her by choosing surgery and making her go through more pain than just putting her to sleep. I also feel I forgot about her a little when the baby came and that's when it all went downhill. I feel I should have had her surgery a year ago but couldn't afford it at the time (but what was I expecting, for the gingivitis to magically get better?!) I'm such an idiot.
Anyways. We took her to the vet again yesterday and asked for a steroid shot to get her to at least eat something before her surgery. The vet thought she might not survive the surgery but also felt we should try as she is a fairly young cat.
The steroids have not kicked in yet (or perhaps she is already over the edge) and she is still not eating anything and looking very confused and wobbly. I will take her to have her teeth extracted and hope whatever happens she will not be in a lot of pain.
I guess that's it. Thanks for reading.