I wonder if you guys might give me some thoughts on a situation with my housekeeper (who is also my friend!)
I don't know if I am just getting annoyed at little stuff or what, but she is always asking for something. Like, we buy these big tubs of laundry soap powder- and before it is even empty she was asking if she could have them when they are empty, it just got to me- even though I was going to end up throwing them away. Then candle jars, etc.
And last night- she called begging me to give her 4 Motrin because she "forgot to get it at the store". More and more, her husband and her are just seeming like moochers- and I don't want to think that way, I'm just not sure how to think........ Over the past few months she has asked for something nearly every visit. Gravy mix, because she was "craving biscuits and gravy". The list goes on, and on.
Add to that the fact her husband is EXTREMELY annoying. An example of this, is when we go to the grocery store he uses a "steak joke" everytime. The type of person who just, jokes like "What did you get me or bring me" or "I'll take a steak with everything". I know he is joking around but it just irks me to no end, his sense of "HUMOR".
It's like she makes a point, every time she comes to tell me "if you decide to get rid of that I want it", or "when you go through your clothes again make sure you pass them on to me if you don't want them", etc. Maybe I am just super irritated, but it seems out of line.....
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But what do I do about her asking for like gravy mix because ofa "huge craving" or, medicine
I want to be generous, and nice
but she gets SSI, she even gets OTC meds for free through Medicaid, plus food stamps and food bank food
I don't think I could tell somebody no on food... it just isn't in my nature, or medicine for that matter...
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