Hello.
This is probably nothing new to these forums, but we need help, or our cat is going to have to go!
We have a cat, possible 9 or 10, who has some decreased mobility due to arthritis. He is being very passive aggressive towards our 9 month old. We've been trying with limited success to teach our 9 month old how to be "nice" to the cats. We have 2 cats, and our other cat just gets out of the way when our daughter is doing something unkind, and that cat leaves the room or goes up to the top of the couch, out of the reach of our baby.
Our other cat, however, will simply move 2 - 3 feet, and lay back down. He is a little slower due to arthritis, but he can certainly get out of the way of our crawling baby if he really wanted to. Also some times he's quite sweet to her, nuzzling her head, and letting her climb over him with little protest. However twice he's scratched our daughter on the face, and that is just intolerable for us. The first time I expressed my displeasure with a lot of yelling "bad cat", and gentle swiping that would emulate another cat swiping at him (not nearly enough to hurt him in any way). The 2nd time we heard our baby crying, but no evidence of what happened, and we didn't see it happen. Only later did we see the scratches on her face.
So I think the reason why Bugs doesn't go into another room is that he both wants to be in our company, and does sort of want the company of our daughter, but not the fur grabbing and tail pulling that she does, and that's why he stays in the same room. We either need to teach him to run away, although when she starts walking I think she will be able to overtake him, or we need to teach him to tolerate our daughter. Or... we need to find him a new home.
Any parents or professionals our there who have had to deal with this? What do I do?
Thanks!
Sam
This is probably nothing new to these forums, but we need help, or our cat is going to have to go!
We have a cat, possible 9 or 10, who has some decreased mobility due to arthritis. He is being very passive aggressive towards our 9 month old. We've been trying with limited success to teach our 9 month old how to be "nice" to the cats. We have 2 cats, and our other cat just gets out of the way when our daughter is doing something unkind, and that cat leaves the room or goes up to the top of the couch, out of the reach of our baby.
Our other cat, however, will simply move 2 - 3 feet, and lay back down. He is a little slower due to arthritis, but he can certainly get out of the way of our crawling baby if he really wanted to. Also some times he's quite sweet to her, nuzzling her head, and letting her climb over him with little protest. However twice he's scratched our daughter on the face, and that is just intolerable for us. The first time I expressed my displeasure with a lot of yelling "bad cat", and gentle swiping that would emulate another cat swiping at him (not nearly enough to hurt him in any way). The 2nd time we heard our baby crying, but no evidence of what happened, and we didn't see it happen. Only later did we see the scratches on her face.
So I think the reason why Bugs doesn't go into another room is that he both wants to be in our company, and does sort of want the company of our daughter, but not the fur grabbing and tail pulling that she does, and that's why he stays in the same room. We either need to teach him to run away, although when she starts walking I think she will be able to overtake him, or we need to teach him to tolerate our daughter. Or... we need to find him a new home.
Any parents or professionals our there who have had to deal with this? What do I do?
Thanks!
Sam