Please help! I desperately need advice from someone on how to help my new kitten. For background, she was found when she was (barely) 3 weeks old, tiny and crying she had diarrhea and was malnourished, but we took her to the vet 2 days later and she was otherwise healthy. She had some fleas but was otherwise healthy, just very small. Obviously I know she should NEVER have been taken from her mother so young, but with google and help from our vet, I've done the best that I could with her and she is healthy and playful with lots of energy.
The problem is that unfortunately, kitty came into our lives at a pretty bad time, as my husband and I moved about 3 weeks after we got her. Again, I know this was not ideal either, but we did everything we could think of (feliway, keeping her in her pet gear playpen w/all her bedding, fav toys, etc, while we were getting the new apt put together) to minimize the stress for her, but it didn't seem to help. Although we moved to a FAR better environment for her, I think that her lack of socialization/trauma from being taken from mom and abandoned combined w/the stress of the move is making her very very unhappy and aggressive she bites, scratches, hisses, and attacks is constantly except when she is sleeping. She will only cuddle with me at night, when she sleeps on my shoulder. Worst of all, she has stopped purring! She ONLY purrs when she is in her fuzzy bed, which she likes to "nurse" on. I've had several cats and kittens before, but of course never one this young, and I've tried everything I know and am at my wit's end how to make her happy and help her relax, and get her to stop biting! I know that another kitten would help, but that really isn't a viable option at the moment, and I am also concerned that getting another kitten would actually cause her even more stress. At this point, I am seriously considering rehoming her somewhere with other cats or people who are able to spend more time with her than we are since we both work this would absolutely break my heart, but I want what is best for her, and so I am just seeking any advice i can get as to a) help my poor unhappy baby, and me, or b) tell me whether the situation is probably hopeless and I need find her a new home. Please help, and thank you for reading!
The problem is that unfortunately, kitty came into our lives at a pretty bad time, as my husband and I moved about 3 weeks after we got her. Again, I know this was not ideal either, but we did everything we could think of (feliway, keeping her in her pet gear playpen w/all her bedding, fav toys, etc, while we were getting the new apt put together) to minimize the stress for her, but it didn't seem to help. Although we moved to a FAR better environment for her, I think that her lack of socialization/trauma from being taken from mom and abandoned combined w/the stress of the move is making her very very unhappy and aggressive she bites, scratches, hisses, and attacks is constantly except when she is sleeping. She will only cuddle with me at night, when she sleeps on my shoulder. Worst of all, she has stopped purring! She ONLY purrs when she is in her fuzzy bed, which she likes to "nurse" on. I've had several cats and kittens before, but of course never one this young, and I've tried everything I know and am at my wit's end how to make her happy and help her relax, and get her to stop biting! I know that another kitten would help, but that really isn't a viable option at the moment, and I am also concerned that getting another kitten would actually cause her even more stress. At this point, I am seriously considering rehoming her somewhere with other cats or people who are able to spend more time with her than we are since we both work this would absolutely break my heart, but I want what is best for her, and so I am just seeking any advice i can get as to a) help my poor unhappy baby, and me, or b) tell me whether the situation is probably hopeless and I need find her a new home. Please help, and thank you for reading!