Hi all -
We have a 7 year old indoor female. About a month ago we ended up rescuing a now-6-month-old female kitten from a bad situation. We did not intend to keep her - but several weeks of effort did not turn up a new home for her, and now we are becoming attached and considering keeping her. But we don't want to make our current cat unhappy!
Because she was supposed to be temporary, the kitten was in her own space for weeks. Then we started considering keeping her, so started short supervised visits. There was some hissing and wariness, but not bad at all. About 10 days ago we started letting the kitten have run of the house when we are awake and home.
I can't decide how it is going. It many ways it seems good. Kitten is sweet, likes laps, and seems eager to snuggle with older cat. Kitten has tried to put her head on cat a couple of times, but cat always moves pretty quickly. However, they regularly sleep in the same room within several feet of each other. Kitten will sometimes move closer, and cat will sometimes allow it. :-) No grooming, but they will touch noses and sniff each other frequently.
But I'm not sure about the "play." Sometimes it seems good - the cats taking turns chasing each other through the house. But sometimes it seems to get too aggressive? Usually it is the kitten who is jumping on the older cat repeatedly, and the older cat will hiss and seem pretty unhappy. Once or twice there has been fur flying, but usually not. Sometimes ears are back, and again once or twice I've seen arched backs - but most of the time it is wrestling and pawing at one another with little to no sound. If someone hisses, it is always the older cat.
My older cat has NEVER been around another cat since we rescued her at 8 weeks old. So I partially wonder if this is just normal working itself out. I don't know how to judge what is positive behavior and what is a problem.
Also, I have been trying to distract them with food or toys when it starts to seem to aggressive - but would it be better to let them figure out the pecking order? Or would that make it more likely that they would fight more next time?
Any input is appreciated! Thanks!
We have a 7 year old indoor female. About a month ago we ended up rescuing a now-6-month-old female kitten from a bad situation. We did not intend to keep her - but several weeks of effort did not turn up a new home for her, and now we are becoming attached and considering keeping her. But we don't want to make our current cat unhappy!
Because she was supposed to be temporary, the kitten was in her own space for weeks. Then we started considering keeping her, so started short supervised visits. There was some hissing and wariness, but not bad at all. About 10 days ago we started letting the kitten have run of the house when we are awake and home.
I can't decide how it is going. It many ways it seems good. Kitten is sweet, likes laps, and seems eager to snuggle with older cat. Kitten has tried to put her head on cat a couple of times, but cat always moves pretty quickly. However, they regularly sleep in the same room within several feet of each other. Kitten will sometimes move closer, and cat will sometimes allow it. :-) No grooming, but they will touch noses and sniff each other frequently.
But I'm not sure about the "play." Sometimes it seems good - the cats taking turns chasing each other through the house. But sometimes it seems to get too aggressive? Usually it is the kitten who is jumping on the older cat repeatedly, and the older cat will hiss and seem pretty unhappy. Once or twice there has been fur flying, but usually not. Sometimes ears are back, and again once or twice I've seen arched backs - but most of the time it is wrestling and pawing at one another with little to no sound. If someone hisses, it is always the older cat.
My older cat has NEVER been around another cat since we rescued her at 8 weeks old. So I partially wonder if this is just normal working itself out. I don't know how to judge what is positive behavior and what is a problem.
Also, I have been trying to distract them with food or toys when it starts to seem to aggressive - but would it be better to let them figure out the pecking order? Or would that make it more likely that they would fight more next time?
Any input is appreciated! Thanks!