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My Calico's name is Honey. She started out very sweet like Honey (hence her name). She is about 1 1/2 years old. She ended up with a litter of kittens March 8th 2014 and did the NORMAL "protective momma cat" thing. Once the kittens were weaned, she was spaded. The problem is she had that litter almost 7 months ago and she is still acting like a "protective momma cat" and has gotten worse with her aggression over that past few months-- she has none of her own kittens here. She is mean to all other cats now and was never like that before the kittens were born. How can I get her to calm back down?
She is an indoor/outdoor cat... but has gotten to the point she wants to be outside almost all the time. We live in the country and only one neighbor close by. Since August she has gotten wilder... she's running off and I have to go out to look for her every night to get her to come in to eat, settle down then off to bed/sleep. Although we live in the country there is a state highway in front of the house with quite a bit of traffic... and yes lately she has been running across that highway and she's NEVER done that before (again that started in August of this year). If I keep her in the house for very long she starts getting more angry - even towards me.
Tonight when I brought her inside she started bulling me and the other two cats - and I had to scold her very very hard to get her to calm back down. Scolding her hard works but I am sick of doing that as well as hate having to scold her for her actions but I cannot allow her to bully (scratch) me and the other cats.
So here is what I need help/advice with:
1. Her growing aggression towards other animals (especially other cats) and this behavior started right after her kittens were born 7 months ago and she's getting worse. She's odd: She goes from very sweet to very aggressive with me and she's pretty much staying aggressive towards other animals these days. The ONLY animal she gets along with most of the time is her "sister" Nut. (But Honey will get aggressive with Nut at times too).
2. Her running off all the time. She goes "crazy" if I'm awake and she can't go outside (while I'm asleep she will sleep with me and acts sweet and loving) - as soon as I'm awake she becomes a "wild" cat and wants back outside and will sometimes get aggressive with me if I don't let her outside. Once she's back outside she starts running off - even across the state highway (traffic worries me).
One more note on her: the vet says she's healthy.
So do I let her stay outside when she wants to be out (even with that state highway she crosses) OR should I make her stay indoors and put up with her aggression towards me and the other cats? Is there any way stop or at least curb her aggression?
Thanks in advance.
She is an indoor/outdoor cat... but has gotten to the point she wants to be outside almost all the time. We live in the country and only one neighbor close by. Since August she has gotten wilder... she's running off and I have to go out to look for her every night to get her to come in to eat, settle down then off to bed/sleep. Although we live in the country there is a state highway in front of the house with quite a bit of traffic... and yes lately she has been running across that highway and she's NEVER done that before (again that started in August of this year). If I keep her in the house for very long she starts getting more angry - even towards me.
Tonight when I brought her inside she started bulling me and the other two cats - and I had to scold her very very hard to get her to calm back down. Scolding her hard works but I am sick of doing that as well as hate having to scold her for her actions but I cannot allow her to bully (scratch) me and the other cats.
So here is what I need help/advice with:
1. Her growing aggression towards other animals (especially other cats) and this behavior started right after her kittens were born 7 months ago and she's getting worse. She's odd: She goes from very sweet to very aggressive with me and she's pretty much staying aggressive towards other animals these days. The ONLY animal she gets along with most of the time is her "sister" Nut. (But Honey will get aggressive with Nut at times too).
2. Her running off all the time. She goes "crazy" if I'm awake and she can't go outside (while I'm asleep she will sleep with me and acts sweet and loving) - as soon as I'm awake she becomes a "wild" cat and wants back outside and will sometimes get aggressive with me if I don't let her outside. Once she's back outside she starts running off - even across the state highway (traffic worries me).
One more note on her: the vet says she's healthy.
So do I let her stay outside when she wants to be out (even with that state highway she crosses) OR should I make her stay indoors and put up with her aggression towards me and the other cats? Is there any way stop or at least curb her aggression?
Thanks in advance.