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Hi I'm new here, iv joined to hopefully get help in figuring my unpredictable cat out!!
First off a quick backstory.... I lived in an area that was overrun with feral cats (I know the difference now between feral an stray) I had a car sat in my garden while trying to sell it but had attracted a feral cat which was using it to store her kittens in the engine, I'm not sure why but she would leave 1 at a time for a few days then swap the kitten with a different one. one day wen I had someone viewing the car I found a kitten covered in oil so I managed to capture it and bring it inside, sadly after this the mum never came back. the kitten hid under my bed an slowly over few days came out but would hiss an run back under if I went towards it. eventually after a month I'd gained enough trust for it to come to me but only wen I sat on the bed (I think maybe being sat lower to her level) the kitten was barely 6 weeks old an fit in the palm of my hand. over the next few months the bond grew to the point where she would follow me from room to room like a dog, she's now 3 years old and is like my sidekick, she comes to bed with me and even gets under the quilt to squash up to me, However on the flip side she won't allow me to pick her up, will sit on my lap for no more than 5 minutes and if I stroke anywhere other than her head she growls an swipes (she growls quite a lot). can anyone explain why she's so so loving yet so so mean at the same time?!
First off a quick backstory.... I lived in an area that was overrun with feral cats (I know the difference now between feral an stray) I had a car sat in my garden while trying to sell it but had attracted a feral cat which was using it to store her kittens in the engine, I'm not sure why but she would leave 1 at a time for a few days then swap the kitten with a different one. one day wen I had someone viewing the car I found a kitten covered in oil so I managed to capture it and bring it inside, sadly after this the mum never came back. the kitten hid under my bed an slowly over few days came out but would hiss an run back under if I went towards it. eventually after a month I'd gained enough trust for it to come to me but only wen I sat on the bed (I think maybe being sat lower to her level) the kitten was barely 6 weeks old an fit in the palm of my hand. over the next few months the bond grew to the point where she would follow me from room to room like a dog, she's now 3 years old and is like my sidekick, she comes to bed with me and even gets under the quilt to squash up to me, However on the flip side she won't allow me to pick her up, will sit on my lap for no more than 5 minutes and if I stroke anywhere other than her head she growls an swipes (she growls quite a lot). can anyone explain why she's so so loving yet so so mean at the same time?!