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There are a total of 4 strays/ferals that I take care of outside. There are two black females (Peanut and Pepper) that I have been taking care of since they were born under my shed a little over a year ago and I've grown particularly fond of them. I wasn't able to get near them for the better part of their lives but curiously once they became pregnant and had kittens (which I regret, this was before I was able to TNR them) they have become downright friendly with me. They literally live on my porch and stare through my window at me and cry for me to come out.
Peanut is definitely less skittish than Pepper. I can pet her and even put her on my lap where she will stay for a few minutes. She purrs and rubs up against me and curls up and sleeps next to me on our chair outside. I can even pick her up, though she squirms. I even allowed Peanut to recover in my bathroom for about 2 weeks when she was spayed which I think helped solidify our bond. I sincerely wanted to keep her as an inside cat but my other cats contracted a URI from her and to be straightforward, things got a little overwhelming for me so I let her back outside and she seemed very content and happy for the most part. I feel awful when it rains though and am not looking forward to the upcoming wintry weather.
I just had her sister, Pepper, spayed last month and she is showing signs of being as friendly as Peanut though she is not quite there yet. I can pet her which she LOVES and she purrs but sometimes she runs from me.
I would like to bring both of them inside but I don't know how realistic that is because I have 4 cats right now (ages 3, 10, 12, 14) . I believe I have the space but 6 cats is definitely well over my limit though I remember when I said that about 4 cats and it really works perfectly now. Also as I am sure many of you deal with, I know that my husband is not entirely keen on the idea. It took some convincing for me to have him agree to bring Peanut inside when the weather gets colder and now I am considering bringing in a second cat! Though he says he will support whatever I say, I know that when things get problematic such as cat fights, possible urination and just general discontent among the cats it will displease him (and me). We run a very clean house so these are things that concern me in addition to an extra litter box but I have
some ideas for that.
Has anyone here ever integrated 2 "semi-feral" cats that are familiar with each other (from the same litter) with 4 other inside cats?
I feel like it will be a nightmare. Also, they are all female! I don't know how only female cats find me but I have never owned a male cat.
I know I definitely want to bring Peanut in but I don't have the heart to separate them and leave Pepper alone. While they aren't best
buddies, they do "hang out" and play together. Is this a silly thought?
I also wonder what people think about these cats being truly feral because their behavior has made me questions whether feral cats
can truly be tamed past a certain age. These cats were born under my shed to a mom cat with a limp that I fed(she has since disappeared and I assume the other kittens either relocated or are sadly, dead) These two thrived however and I watched them grow all year in my yard though I could never touch them and assumed that I never could. Then one day I pet Peanut through the screen door and the rest is history. I mean, this cat knows her name and comes when I call her (or knows the sound of my voice). My father who lives with us and sits out on the porch with them before I get home from work tells me that they can recognize the sound of my car coming up the street.
I guess I don't know what to do and just wanted to vent a little about my situation. Both cats are well loved and taken care of but I always feel like I'm not spending enough time with them. Here is a picture. When they sit and stare at me through my kitchen door, I both think it's cute and feel so guilty like they are just begging to come inside which they would be if I didn't have 4 other cats to worry about. Peanut is in front, Pepper is in the back.
Peanut is definitely less skittish than Pepper. I can pet her and even put her on my lap where she will stay for a few minutes. She purrs and rubs up against me and curls up and sleeps next to me on our chair outside. I can even pick her up, though she squirms. I even allowed Peanut to recover in my bathroom for about 2 weeks when she was spayed which I think helped solidify our bond. I sincerely wanted to keep her as an inside cat but my other cats contracted a URI from her and to be straightforward, things got a little overwhelming for me so I let her back outside and she seemed very content and happy for the most part. I feel awful when it rains though and am not looking forward to the upcoming wintry weather.
I just had her sister, Pepper, spayed last month and she is showing signs of being as friendly as Peanut though she is not quite there yet. I can pet her which she LOVES and she purrs but sometimes she runs from me.
I would like to bring both of them inside but I don't know how realistic that is because I have 4 cats right now (ages 3, 10, 12, 14) . I believe I have the space but 6 cats is definitely well over my limit though I remember when I said that about 4 cats and it really works perfectly now. Also as I am sure many of you deal with, I know that my husband is not entirely keen on the idea. It took some convincing for me to have him agree to bring Peanut inside when the weather gets colder and now I am considering bringing in a second cat! Though he says he will support whatever I say, I know that when things get problematic such as cat fights, possible urination and just general discontent among the cats it will displease him (and me). We run a very clean house so these are things that concern me in addition to an extra litter box but I have
some ideas for that.
Has anyone here ever integrated 2 "semi-feral" cats that are familiar with each other (from the same litter) with 4 other inside cats?
I feel like it will be a nightmare. Also, they are all female! I don't know how only female cats find me but I have never owned a male cat.
I know I definitely want to bring Peanut in but I don't have the heart to separate them and leave Pepper alone. While they aren't best
buddies, they do "hang out" and play together. Is this a silly thought?
I also wonder what people think about these cats being truly feral because their behavior has made me questions whether feral cats
can truly be tamed past a certain age. These cats were born under my shed to a mom cat with a limp that I fed(she has since disappeared and I assume the other kittens either relocated or are sadly, dead) These two thrived however and I watched them grow all year in my yard though I could never touch them and assumed that I never could. Then one day I pet Peanut through the screen door and the rest is history. I mean, this cat knows her name and comes when I call her (or knows the sound of my voice). My father who lives with us and sits out on the porch with them before I get home from work tells me that they can recognize the sound of my car coming up the street.
I guess I don't know what to do and just wanted to vent a little about my situation. Both cats are well loved and taken care of but I always feel like I'm not spending enough time with them. Here is a picture. When they sit and stare at me through my kitchen door, I both think it's cute and feel so guilty like they are just begging to come inside which they would be if I didn't have 4 other cats to worry about. Peanut is in front, Pepper is in the back.
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