hi, new here

I have to disagree about keeping Stella confined. She is a timid kitten (per the rescue group) and she will progress more quickly this way. @Slykat12, Stella has been in her new home for around 48 hrs, maybe. That certainly isn't a very long time in cat terms, in fact, it's quite short.

@Meekzmilly, I wanted to mention that I think it is fine for the end table to be in the room with Stella, so long as you are able to reach where she is hiding.

CatPack said:

Stella is very cute!

I would reconsider getting a buddy for her, especially since she is timid. Is her sister still available? This would be even better if one of the litter mates is more outgoing. She can watch how they interact with you and follow suit. I'd still encourage you to keep both confined while they are adjusting.

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yes she is still available, here's what the lady said about her sister, scarlett. "  she is shy but is very playful. She is so playful she wears down Stella almost everyday."

This is also Stella's first time away from her litter mates except for when she was separated after she got spayed. 

It's never too late to confine and reintroduce a feline to an environment or another animal. In fact it's something we recommend here all the time. I'm glad you have taken our advice.

I didn't mean to be rude earlier, I was just stating the obvious. Unfortunately tone is not something heard with the written word.

Do you have her litterbox in the room with her? I'd also be sure she has plenty of fresh water.

Adopting a litter mate would be ideal as well. Kittens enjoy having a play pal.

bigperm20 said:

It's never too late to confine and reintroduce a feline to an environment or another animal. In fact it's something we recommend here all the time. I'm glad you have taken our advice.

I didn't mean to be rude earlier, I was just stating the obvious. Unfortunately tone is not something heard with the written word.

Do you have her litterbox in the room with her? I'd also be sure she has plenty of fresh water.

Adopting a litter mate would be ideal as well. Kittens enjoy having a play pal.

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everything I purchased for her is in the room. Liter box, her food and water, her toys. 

Often times having 2 kittens is easier than having 1. What I mean by that is that the kittens will have each other to play with, rough house with, have a companion while you are away, so less likely to get bored/lonely. That leaves you to the cuddles and the interactive play sessions (all the fun stuff!)

But, having 2 also means double vet bills, more food, etc...

99% of people who have 2 cats that were adopted together never regret it. And, the cats really do well. (Though that's not to say that some cats don't do fine being an only...they do...but, I think most cats do best when they are adopted with a litter mate or buddy.)

But, I really think there are some great benefits to be had, specifically for Stella. It might help draw her out of her shell.

I would suggest seeing if you could go visit Scarlett and talk this over with the rescue. (I work for a rescue and know I would be more than happy to talk to an adopter like you! Especially since Stella's best interest is at play.)

She is a sweetie. And I agree - often two are less work because they keep each other occupied. You will need more litter boxes, though, so in a small place it is best to work out where you can put them in advance. But whether you decide to go that route or mot, don't get depressed too soon. I had a kitten once who lived behind my sofa for 6 months before I could get near her. I had to put all her necessities as near to there as I could, but she would only come out to use them and to eat at night. She did have a bad history of abuse, so it it was understandable, but I just say it because it is not unusual for kittens to take their time, Certainly more than a few days. I am sure you will get there in the end. Meanwhile don't try to rush her - you may only stress her more, and when you approach her don't make eye contact as this is seen as aggressive behaviour by cats. Good luck!

Also give her lots of praise when she comes out.

I feel bad my poor kitty is probably more afraid, its football sunday and my team is winning so that means I am loud, but anyways

I am a little confused. She's in the room with all of her stuff in it, should I keep the door closed or keep it cracked open a little bit? Should I go in there every now and then and talk to her or do stuff in the room? How do I know when it is time to open the door completely to allow her to come out if she wants?

Keep the door closed for now. She will come out and eat better when she feels like there's total privacy. Go there every few hours and chat with her. After a while you will open the door and she will run up to you. When she is willing to follow you to the door, start leaving it open.

so should I have the food in there or out here?

If you have the space/means to keep food in there with her, it's a good idea. I wasn't sure how much room you had to work with. Don't get discouraged if she is shy for a few more days. As long as she eats and goes potty, she will eventually perk up. If she is a very energetic/playful sort, a playmate might be a really good idea.

her food is in there with her. I am thinking i should have just adopted her sister with her because she is a shy lil thing. I am just really nervous about having 2, never had 2 kittens before

I know a lot of people with two cats and they are quite happy. If you do decide to go that way, you should think about doing it soon while she remembers her litter.

yeah that's another thing if I decide to get her sister I don't want her to forget her.

It sounds as if you are gone quite a bit during the week (full time job and school...wow!)

Because it seems Stella and Scarlett had a very good relationship, If you can afford to have 2 cats, I would recommend getting Scarlett too.

Most rescue groups are willing to give you a trial period to see if the new cat works out. This would allow you to see how Stella and Scarlett interact with each other and you and give you a chance to see what it is like caring for 2.

I would also encourage you to make your decision in the next day or so as that will likely help you avoid having to reintroduce the sisters.

I would confine Scarlett in the room with Stella. Go in every few hours and talk with them, read out loud, use a stick toy (like Da Bird...I like Petco's version the best, seems to be more durable.) Send 30 minutes or so in the room each time. If they become interested, stay longer.

I was just able to sit on the floor and play with her for about 15-20 mins, she was rubing her head on my legs and feet and playing with her with one of the ball toys I got her. I left the room for a little bit and now she's back under this thing I got, I can see her though. I am going to sit in here and work on my school work right now.

That's great.  

with 2 cats will I still they still want to cuddle or play with me? I wanted a cat for the company since I live alone and just wanted someone or something to come home to. Will they even be fased by me or just them because they have each other?

also if I don't have enough room for a liter box will I have to buy two? 

and now sleeping lol