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I have 2 indoor cats(small space 1,000 sq feet) but in July 2014 my female Franny(sister of male) died. Its almost 2 months and I noticed that the male Lemmy who had what looked like exzema on his back is cured. He had it for years. Dry dandruff but now I believe it was from stress from Franny. They fought a lot. Mostly he would lay down in a non threatning way and she would jump on him. But in the last few years it became more difficult with major nasty meowing at each other. They never seemed close for the entire 12 years, more like they tolerated each other. In the last 2 weeks I see that Lemmy is looking for Franny under my bed where she slept. I am a flight attendant so I am away from home and I also travel a lot on vacations. I adopted 2 cats so they could keep each other company. But now 2 months in I am wondering if Lemmy is lonely when I leave. He sleeps like most cats 15hours a day. He still sleeps alone at night, no visiting my bedroom( his sis slept with me every night) I've tried to coax him in but he does not last long. Since I am older and in the future I want to do a lot more traveling I am not thinking I want another cat in the house. I am thinking when Lemmy is no longer here I will not have cat's till I am more settled again. Is Lemmy really lonely? I give him loads of attention when I am home. Any thoughts on this topic will be greatly appreciated.