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This is going to be long read, so be forewarned. I just joined this site because i'm trying to exhaust all options. I just don't know where else to turn or what else to do at this point.
I have three Snowshoe cats. Bear, Katie, and Yogi. Bear and Katie are littler mates. Yogi is their full blooded brother, but he came from the next littler the parents had. I got Yogi about 2 years after I got Bear and Katie. He was the greatest addition ever to this house. Katie's a princess and just doesn't do the whole playing thing. Bear desperately needed someone to play with. When we brought Yogi in, he was an instant hit. He and Katie were like peas in a pod. They slept everywhere together, and she always groomed him. Bear and Yogi played constantly. The three of them were just an absolute treat.
This past Memorial Day, Yogi got out of the house. I didn't realize his abscence until the end of the day when I went to feed them all. I hired a pet detective by the name of Steve Hagey out of SE Pennsylvania where I live. With Steve's guidance, I was able to finally capture Yogi after 16 agonizing days away from home. After a trip to the vet to get checked out, Yogi game home. Bear and Katie weren't initially receptive of his return, but after some basic hissing and whatnot, things went back to normal.
Everything went swimmingly for several weeks. Then it happened. Yogi was in the foyer in the front of the house looking out the door when another cat, a calico who'd I'd caught on wildlife camera while tracking Yogi down, walked in front of the house. Yogi lost it. Clearly he'd encountered this cat when he was astranged, and it didn't go well. The other two cats went to investigate what on earth was going on in the foyer. Yogi turned on both of them. I'd never seen anything like it whatsoever. It was vicious. I separated them immediately, but not until I'd received 30+ cuts and scratches from Yogi. I let several hours pass before I let them see one another again, but he immediately went after them again.
Starting that evening I put Yogi in my room and left the other two out. I started just cracking my door using a door stop and letting them see and siff one another. They'd even bat at one another. Snowshoes make a sort of chortling noise when they're curious or playful, and Yogi did this plenty. AFter several days, I eventually let him out, and things went swimmingly for about a week. I'd shut all blinds in the house to eliminate any chance of seeing this cat again. Then one evening in my room, Yogi flipped again out of the blue. I had to start the process all over again. I eventually got a nice sized cage to put Yogi in so the other two could come into my room to socialize with me without having to have issues with Yogi. No hissing. No fighting. Everything seemed great.
However, subsequent introductions have just not gone well. And worse, the other two cats are now starting to get into it with one another, and every area of the house where an altercation has taken place, has now become a place where everyone's on the defensive. I'm of the interpretation that fear breeds these events. The simple observation of one cat, that one of the others is frightened or on edge, seems to be enough to spur one agitating if not outright attacking the other. I'm losing my mind at this point.
I thought about separating them when feeding in case there's food aggression. I even considered declawing Yogi so he couldn't hurt the others if he did go after them, but he's not scratching them...he's biting them. He always has a face full of fur after an altercation.
In such a short time, I've gone from having the most harmonious home ever, to an absolute warzone. I can't sleep, I can't eat. I'm an absolute wreck. I'm at the verge of giving away Yogi, but Katie and Bear are even becoming more unviable by the day.
Yogi's even been prescribed prozac...and I use plug-in Feliway diffusers. Nothing seems to work.
These animals are everything to me...and I'm losing them....and they're losing each other. And it's breaking my heart.
I'm willing to listen to anything and everything as a means to resolve this. If putting them in new homes to remove them from these stresses is necessary I'm prepared to do it for their wellbeing. But if there's any way to make this work...I want to try.
Thank you in advance for taking the time to read this...and for any help you can give. I also apologize if this is posted in the wrong place as this is my first post here.
Hayden
I have three Snowshoe cats. Bear, Katie, and Yogi. Bear and Katie are littler mates. Yogi is their full blooded brother, but he came from the next littler the parents had. I got Yogi about 2 years after I got Bear and Katie. He was the greatest addition ever to this house. Katie's a princess and just doesn't do the whole playing thing. Bear desperately needed someone to play with. When we brought Yogi in, he was an instant hit. He and Katie were like peas in a pod. They slept everywhere together, and she always groomed him. Bear and Yogi played constantly. The three of them were just an absolute treat.
This past Memorial Day, Yogi got out of the house. I didn't realize his abscence until the end of the day when I went to feed them all. I hired a pet detective by the name of Steve Hagey out of SE Pennsylvania where I live. With Steve's guidance, I was able to finally capture Yogi after 16 agonizing days away from home. After a trip to the vet to get checked out, Yogi game home. Bear and Katie weren't initially receptive of his return, but after some basic hissing and whatnot, things went back to normal.
Everything went swimmingly for several weeks. Then it happened. Yogi was in the foyer in the front of the house looking out the door when another cat, a calico who'd I'd caught on wildlife camera while tracking Yogi down, walked in front of the house. Yogi lost it. Clearly he'd encountered this cat when he was astranged, and it didn't go well. The other two cats went to investigate what on earth was going on in the foyer. Yogi turned on both of them. I'd never seen anything like it whatsoever. It was vicious. I separated them immediately, but not until I'd received 30+ cuts and scratches from Yogi. I let several hours pass before I let them see one another again, but he immediately went after them again.
Starting that evening I put Yogi in my room and left the other two out. I started just cracking my door using a door stop and letting them see and siff one another. They'd even bat at one another. Snowshoes make a sort of chortling noise when they're curious or playful, and Yogi did this plenty. AFter several days, I eventually let him out, and things went swimmingly for about a week. I'd shut all blinds in the house to eliminate any chance of seeing this cat again. Then one evening in my room, Yogi flipped again out of the blue. I had to start the process all over again. I eventually got a nice sized cage to put Yogi in so the other two could come into my room to socialize with me without having to have issues with Yogi. No hissing. No fighting. Everything seemed great.
However, subsequent introductions have just not gone well. And worse, the other two cats are now starting to get into it with one another, and every area of the house where an altercation has taken place, has now become a place where everyone's on the defensive. I'm of the interpretation that fear breeds these events. The simple observation of one cat, that one of the others is frightened or on edge, seems to be enough to spur one agitating if not outright attacking the other. I'm losing my mind at this point.
I thought about separating them when feeding in case there's food aggression. I even considered declawing Yogi so he couldn't hurt the others if he did go after them, but he's not scratching them...he's biting them. He always has a face full of fur after an altercation.
In such a short time, I've gone from having the most harmonious home ever, to an absolute warzone. I can't sleep, I can't eat. I'm an absolute wreck. I'm at the verge of giving away Yogi, but Katie and Bear are even becoming more unviable by the day.
Yogi's even been prescribed prozac...and I use plug-in Feliway diffusers. Nothing seems to work.
These animals are everything to me...and I'm losing them....and they're losing each other. And it's breaking my heart.
I'm willing to listen to anything and everything as a means to resolve this. If putting them in new homes to remove them from these stresses is necessary I'm prepared to do it for their wellbeing. But if there's any way to make this work...I want to try.
Thank you in advance for taking the time to read this...and for any help you can give. I also apologize if this is posted in the wrong place as this is my first post here.
Hayden