My husband hates my cats. He has for the last 6 years. I've had the cats for 12 years.
One of them has started pooping on the floor. We've brought her to the vet. Nothing came of it. She won't stop. We try all the internet things. Clean, quiet, multiple litter boxes, blah blah blah, she still poops on the floor.
He has mentioned wanting them dead before. He refers to them as "my cats" (as in mine, not his). I've corrected him every time. They are OUR cats. He said if they were his, then we wouldn't have them, so clearly they are mine because I won't let him get rid of them.
I've had them since they were born. I helped one of them survive by bottle feeding it as a baby and 24 hour vigilance while it fought an infection for days (shifts with my roommate).
Last year, my cats, both of them, survived an F5 tornado...in the house.
My babies lived and he wants them dead. He would have been happy if they died in the tornado. He's said this to me.
He and I have a child and a life.
I just dont' know what to do any more. Please help me.
He threw both of them and everything associated with them in the garage last night.
I hate him right now.
One of them has started pooping on the floor. We've brought her to the vet. Nothing came of it. She won't stop. We try all the internet things. Clean, quiet, multiple litter boxes, blah blah blah, she still poops on the floor.
He has mentioned wanting them dead before. He refers to them as "my cats" (as in mine, not his). I've corrected him every time. They are OUR cats. He said if they were his, then we wouldn't have them, so clearly they are mine because I won't let him get rid of them.
I've had them since they were born. I helped one of them survive by bottle feeding it as a baby and 24 hour vigilance while it fought an infection for days (shifts with my roommate).
Last year, my cats, both of them, survived an F5 tornado...in the house.
My babies lived and he wants them dead. He would have been happy if they died in the tornado. He's said this to me.
He and I have a child and a life.
I just dont' know what to do any more. Please help me.
He threw both of them and everything associated with them in the garage last night.
I hate him right now.