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I'm not sure if it would work, but I was thinking that maybe you could try a "cat harness" for each cat...but that would be difficult at this time, since Tempest wants to be left alone.
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That's the most heartbreaking thing about this. He desperately wants to be snuggle buddies. She desperately wants to be left alone.
I've tried to wean him off being so dependent on me, with limited success. He bonded to me the day after we adopted him, and for several months he would cry whenever he couldn't see me, and panic when I left the house.
In this way, both cats would learn how to not run and bolt...that is only if they trusted each of you enough, to be their "safe people" while you are observing their behaviour in one room.
The other thing I'd suggest, is having more "cat scent swapping" but combine it with that purple afghan (beautiful), and use each cat bed, and get the cats more accustomed to each other's smells.
Also to use your own clothes, and husband's...something old and dirty, so that each cat will get used to it...since it seems each cat has chosen a trusted person.
If the biggest problem is that Tempest just wants to be left alone, then I think, she would always need a safe place to run to, to sleep in, and escape to...(nothing wrong with that, since not every cat can be super social cats, some are just quiet and shy.)
A member on this Site, also suggested '"room swapping"...in which the human sleeps with one cat, in safe room and then with the other, but this would depend upon the space/or rooms available.
Are you more afraid that they will hurt each other...while playfighting?
Or is it that you just want Sinbad to calm down, and re-direct his playing to some other object?
I don't think they will ever become "snuggle buddies" but more like "room mates" who share spaces, and humans to feed them.