Lilac is 5 months old, to be spayed this weekend. Today she started straining in the litter box: sitting with her tail raised for up to 6 minutes, as if waiting for her body to produce something, but all that comes out is a tiny urine (not bloody). She makes no sound, so is not in pain (yet?). I cannot tell whether she's trying to do number 1 or number 2. Help!!