I'm so tired this morning.

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I'm not sleeping that well at night and it seems that we're always on the go during the day. Last night, I no sooner got home from work than I had to make dinner (thank goodness, dinner was easy). Took my produce basket up to the garden, just on check on things, and ended up bringing my basket back to the house full of husked corn, two yellow squash and three zucchini, green peppers, tomatoes, and broccoli. Had to get that all in the freezer. The tomatoes I put in the basement on newspaper to finish ripening a wee bit; the ripe ones are in the fridge for dinner tonight, along with the squash. And while helping me with all that, Rick was also cleaning out the litter boxes and the trash and cleaning the pool and adding pool chemicals and I was working on three loads of laundry (and I expected to do only one small load). Throw in a few phone calls that took some time and some computer work for dear Richard and, I'm telling you, we both pretty much dropped into bed last night....we were so pooped. 

But throw in another night of being too tired to sleep (and I think you can really get to that point where you're so darn tired you can't sleep) and well, when Rick's cell phone rang at 5:00 this morning, that was way, way too early. We lay there for a minute or two, discussing whether we really wanted to get out of bed and decided that if you don't work, you don't get paid, so we got up. Rick gave the kids their breakfast while I did my 3 miles on the treadmill (and they were very long miles this morning) and then we started in on getting ready for work. And here I am. (Usually I can blame being pooped on the older cats who start screaming for their breakfast bright and early. But they've pretty much calmed down and will wait until around 5:30 or so now before demanding breakfast. That's way too late for us, so Rick has resorted to using his cell phone as an alarm clock, something we've not had to do for several years now.)

I'm sitting here, doing everything I can to stay awake; I started working on a plan, but find myself staring into nothing. I am so pooped I just want to go home and go back to bed. But I know that if I went home, there'd be stuff for me to do! It never ends; it just never ends.

I'm just too pooped to pip right now.

Anybody else? 
 

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Yes, I feel your emotional, physical and spiritual exhaustion. I get up at 2:45 a.m. (due in part to Ritz) and don't stop doing chores, errands (WHY or WHY aren't more stores open at 5 a.m.....!!!), gardening (flowers mainly) and physical therapy exercises. And THEN I go to work. T\thank goodness on a commuter bus where I can rest. And read. There are not enough hours in a day.
But I encourage you to take some out for yourself, as trite as it sounds. And try not to multi-task. I find I get more out of whatever it is I'm doing and get it done quicker, if I just concentrate on that one thing. Be it reading, cleaning the liter box (do NOT stop mid-stream and check on the blueberry muffin bread [for twin sister]) and (best of all) giving Ritz a belly rub (I don't need the company of the television blaring, just her purrs).
 

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Okay, I'm not going to say, "Of course you are tired, every day you do the work of 3 people!" because although that's true, it's not helpful.  

I know this is a pat response, but have you had a checkup and blood work done recently? (If one of your kitties wasn't sleeping well and was very tired all the time, you would take him/her to the vet, right?)

After I had a baby, I was extremely exhausted and it didn't let up, it just got worse at the months went on. My doctor said, "Of course you are tired, you're a new mom!" etc. (see above) but in reality I had a smouldering health problem that kicked in after my pregnancy. I didn't get it diagnosed for several years until it got really bad. Took me 10 years to get back to where I was pre-baby.

Anyway, if your health is okay I hope you can slow down. Maybe then you will be able to get some quality sleep. 

Why are we all so busy all the time? Is all the stuff we do every day SO important? (As you can see, I've been wrestling with this lately.)

 
 
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Yep.  I know what's causing mine though. 

That's a great point about some stuff may not need to be done everyday.  I can appreciate a home that is swept/vacuumed daily, but not if it's going to put me in an early grave.
 

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And here I am hoping I'll be less busy/tired when the kids are grown! 


I slept nearly 10 hours last night.  
  I actually feel pretty good today too!  I think it helped we went swimming yesterday.  I was so exhausted last night.  My 2 year old fell asleep briefly in the pool!!  He was floating in a baby raft by my side; just all chilled out.  This kid is one who doesn't stop unless he's got blocks in front of him.  I've never seen him so chilled out.  It was amazing. 
  And helpful because my 4 year old was hanging off my neck the entire time.  Neither kid napped after that; but we all slept hard.  We need a pool.  Need.  Except that's another thing to clean. 


But yes; always something to do!  I have veggies that need putting up and I'm to the point of NEEDING to rearrange bedroom closets; which means sorting and getting rid of things.  DS's bedroom was our office and I still have stuff in there that really belongs elsewhere.  I need to move his things into the closet (which I have locks on) because he is jumping from his crib.  His room needs toddler proofing.  I'm hoping we don't really have to give the crib up yet... 
  He's really not ready and neither am I!  But I took too long to get to him this morning and found him knocking on his door.  
 

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I'm so exhausted every day lately. Chasing around an almost 2 year old and being pregnant is exhausting. Just chasing Aimee around would probably make me tired enough, but add in being just about 8 months pregnant and it's awful. I go to bed between 10 and 10:30 most days but it takes me a while to fall asleep and then I get up 3-4 times a night. 
 
 
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Yeah, I just had a physical a couple months ago, including blood work and everything is fine. I think it's just that I'm getting older and it's difficult to do what I used to do. And I think we're all busy; there's so much to do for everybody. People have to take care of pets, people have to take care of their kids, working is stressful and being a SAHM is stressful, too. 

And you're right in that some things can wait. House-cleaning can wait. But litter boxes cannot. Nor can the garden. Or the laundry. If I let things go too long, then it's really bad when I do get to it. And Rick does his share, sometimes more than his share. 

I used to think that I didn't really want to retire, but I'm starting to change my thinking. I have until 2019 til I can retire from here (a very long five years), but I still will have a few years before I can actually retire. But both Rick and I are thinking about retiring early, just because. 
 
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Not really, SwampWitch. This is an ongoing thing and I'm simply not getting enough rest. Somebody threw up a hairball around 2:30 and I had to get that cleaned up. So then I was awake for about an hour and about the time I started to fall asleep again, Molli threw herself on Muffin as Muffin tried to jump in bed and the resultant tangle from that awakened Rick, too. I finally got out of bed around 5:30 when BooBoo started yelling for breakfast. 

Rick says that when we do the bedroom over, we're making the whole thing completely sound-proof and kicking all the cats out into the rest of the house for the night. 
 

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Yeah, Rick's idea sounds like a good one. Get black-out shades for the windows, too, if you don't have them already.

My husband goes through periods when has trouble sleeping. We bought a natural latex bed which has really helped him (he says he misses it when he travels and has to sleep on hotel beds). Latex costs more, but the mattresses stay in great shape easily for 20+ years, and it's just heaven to sleep on.

It sounds like you are being woken up way too much! My physio teacher in college years ago gave me a tip that has really worked out. If you wake up during the night, get up and pee and have a couple swallows of water. Then you can go right back to sleep. This little fact has really helped with our sleeping around here. (Doesn't necessarily work if the cats are what woke you up, though, but you can try!) Anyway, it seems we can't always tell that we need to pee when lying down, but our bodies know and wake us up. We can't go back to sleep, either, until we take care of things. Hope this helps a little!
 
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My cats are not allowed into the bedroom, and I have black out curtains.  It makes a difference!
 
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