Well, was going to give him away but after the great feed back decided to try again and ask you experts with cats for some help This cat is so sweet and just needs love and I have grown really fond of him but he's kinda sociopathic, haha. He came from abuse and I think abandonment, or was raised with dogs, maybe.
The problems I have are as follows;
1. He doesn't seem to know how to do cat play with my other cat (who was the reason for me getting this cat, as he had lost his 15 yr old friend recently. I feel really bad that my cat now still doesn't have a new buddy.
2. He licks himself constantly and he will jump on the bed near me and wake me up repeatedly from licking.
3. He sits on my recliner at the foot where I sit and again, licks and licks, but worse is that I have to weasel myself out of the chair, i.e. cant use the hand lever. Now I thought in the beginning it was just a bonding thing and to be close to me, as he had come to feel safe with me, but he has now pretty much claimed it as home.
4. He constantly walks (and slow or stops), right where Im walking so I always have to watch for him so I don't step on him.
5. He always takes my other cats food, he know 'his area' for eating but seems to be a dominance thing.
6. He works had to get down if I pick him up and will not allow me to cut his nails.
He is a sweetie pie, but just so much work all the time. I am a disabled sr and its really a challenge trying to get into a 'normal" mode. Im afraid it will never happen and I will just be forced to try to live with these issues. Which I maybe would have done when I was more able, but now it is really work all the time.
Thanks for any tips you guys can give me. Thanks
The problems I have are as follows;
1. He doesn't seem to know how to do cat play with my other cat (who was the reason for me getting this cat, as he had lost his 15 yr old friend recently. I feel really bad that my cat now still doesn't have a new buddy.
2. He licks himself constantly and he will jump on the bed near me and wake me up repeatedly from licking.
3. He sits on my recliner at the foot where I sit and again, licks and licks, but worse is that I have to weasel myself out of the chair, i.e. cant use the hand lever. Now I thought in the beginning it was just a bonding thing and to be close to me, as he had come to feel safe with me, but he has now pretty much claimed it as home.
4. He constantly walks (and slow or stops), right where Im walking so I always have to watch for him so I don't step on him.
5. He always takes my other cats food, he know 'his area' for eating but seems to be a dominance thing.
6. He works had to get down if I pick him up and will not allow me to cut his nails.
He is a sweetie pie, but just so much work all the time. I am a disabled sr and its really a challenge trying to get into a 'normal" mode. Im afraid it will never happen and I will just be forced to try to live with these issues. Which I maybe would have done when I was more able, but now it is really work all the time.
Thanks for any tips you guys can give me. Thanks