I'm very sorry for your loss and grief. The truth is that we're pretty helpless in such a situation, and no matter how we handle it, we'll question whether we did everything "right". What's important is the love he felt from you during his lifetime - that might very well have been in his thoughts during those final minutes and comforted him.
My sister works in hospice care, and she's often talked about how many of her patients choose to die when they're alone for a few minutes, and how the families blame themselves for not being there. Some people and pets prefer to be alone when they depart, so there's no way of saying what's "right" or "wrong". Be kind to yourself, and try to concentrate on all the joy you shared.
My sister works in hospice care, and she's often talked about how many of her patients choose to die when they're alone for a few minutes, and how the families blame themselves for not being there. Some people and pets prefer to be alone when they depart, so there's no way of saying what's "right" or "wrong". Be kind to yourself, and try to concentrate on all the joy you shared.