Thank you Stephan for your reply. Her being blind is not the real problem. Blind kittens and cats do well even so. They don't know they are blind so they just make the best of things. My real concern is the lack of smell and not being able to lap up liquid. I have always feed her wet food with lots of water or KMR mixed in. They both get Royal Canin Babycat. As she would not get this expensive food at the shelter or once adopted, I tried to start moving to less expensive wet food. Even though I started slowly she stopped eating and became dehydrated. I talked with my vet today and she felt the kitten would be not be a up for adoption due to the many problems. She thinks she is brain damaged and may not be able to use her tongue. She did suck on a bottle like a normal kitten, however. This just breaks my heart! She is a very loving little girl and does not seem to be in pain. Plus she has fought so hard to stay alive. I would keep her myself but her brother would need to stay as well and my condo restricts to one pet. In addition they wold have to stay in one room most of the time due to the litter box problem and my resident cat. Is this fair to her healthy brother? People have been forced to sell, get rid of their animals or pay $250.00 per month for each animal over the one limit.
I was hoping someone knew something about this problem and could help me. Sadly, even if I got her to use the box, I don't think she would be able to find it consistently in a new home. I would rather let her go now than have her be returned several times when the adopter could no longer deal with the problems. I have asked the kennel manager to evaluate her as I am too close to this kitten to be objective.
If she needs to be put down I want her brother and I to be there until it is over so she is not stressed or afraid. If the shelter will not allow this I will ask if I can pay my own vet to do it. Sorry, this is making me cry.
Again thank you for responding; no one else did.
Diane