Dear Ann Landers: I am having a problem with a mother-in-law, and I hope you can solve it.
Mom is a lovely person, and I adore her. However, she has a terrible habit of licking all the serving spoons. Whenever she cuts or serves anything, she licks both sides of the utensil. She repeats this with each slice or scoop. I find this totally repulsive, and it has reached the point where I can no longer eat anything she serves.
I have talked to my husband about this, but he says his mother has always done this and it doesn't bother him. Mom is a terrific woman, and I don't want to upset her. Is there a tactful way to get her to stop? -- Hold the Spit in Arizona
Dear Arizona: I'm afraid you're just going to have to come right out and say, "Mom, please stop licking the serving spoon. It grosses me out. Thank you, dear."
Mom is a lovely person, and I adore her. However, she has a terrible habit of licking all the serving spoons. Whenever she cuts or serves anything, she licks both sides of the utensil. She repeats this with each slice or scoop. I find this totally repulsive, and it has reached the point where I can no longer eat anything she serves.
I have talked to my husband about this, but he says his mother has always done this and it doesn't bother him. Mom is a terrific woman, and I don't want to upset her. Is there a tactful way to get her to stop? -- Hold the Spit in Arizona
Dear Arizona: I'm afraid you're just going to have to come right out and say, "Mom, please stop licking the serving spoon. It grosses me out. Thank you, dear."