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So I have been going through some of the pages recently but just created the account since I do really need some ideas.
I have had cats and kittens, and even a couple of ferals in my life and I thought I knew all there is about cats. But somehow I got a curveball and I am at my wits end. So I had gotten a dmh from the shelter as a kitten (of 3 months) who after some initial adjustment problems went along well with my current resident animals including an english bulldog (~2.5 yrs old) and a himalayan (2 yrs old). Now after a year, the kitten who is now full grown has gone ballistic.
In detail, she (name's Tsee) hisses and scratches at everything and has already drawn blood from my resident himalayan Pipi and the bulldog Czar (more serious injury with Czar since she bit the folds of the skin and it is a painful process to for a bulldog to heal there). Thankfully both are well behaved and not aggressive so there was not much of a retaliation for Tsee. And I am not even writing about me, since I don't really mind bites too much. That was week 1. Since then I have tried Feliway, diazepam, bach's remedies, isolation treatments, excess love and fuss, the best foods. I have had her vet checked twice and there is nothing physiologically wrong. And this is for 3 months. I can wait longer, but my other pets are now starting to get snappy and I can't handle so much at the same time.
As a kitten, Tsee was very sickly and had a perennial sneeze which got over later. Otherwise, she responded to petting, liked canned food and tolerated dry stuff as well, is spayed. I used to clip her claws but its getting harder. And if she uses teeth, there is not much I can do. And 3 months is a long time to be patient.
I don't want to rehome her for a couple of reasons. 1. Why should anyone else face the same issues? 2. I have spent a lot of money, time and effort. Too much sunk costs now to let her go. It is almost a challenge. And I cannot in my mind dream of euthanizing a cat or a dog. I love my steaks but killing pets or resident animals is not me.
Changes in environment: there was a tree by my house which fell during a storm. Otherwise, its pretty much the same. There are no diseases or issues with my other animals. I have been to the behaviorist at the shelter but he is also lost. He has referred me to another who is more experienced (or knowledgeable) which will be my last resort, but the new proposed behaviorist charges a pretty hefty fee. I am not sure whether I can again afford a 500$ bill over the months. I might be forced to but I will consider and really appreciate any suggestions first. I have waited long, so a few days longer won't hurt.
Long message. But I needed to be detailed and clear. Hope it helps.
I have had cats and kittens, and even a couple of ferals in my life and I thought I knew all there is about cats. But somehow I got a curveball and I am at my wits end. So I had gotten a dmh from the shelter as a kitten (of 3 months) who after some initial adjustment problems went along well with my current resident animals including an english bulldog (~2.5 yrs old) and a himalayan (2 yrs old). Now after a year, the kitten who is now full grown has gone ballistic.
In detail, she (name's Tsee) hisses and scratches at everything and has already drawn blood from my resident himalayan Pipi and the bulldog Czar (more serious injury with Czar since she bit the folds of the skin and it is a painful process to for a bulldog to heal there). Thankfully both are well behaved and not aggressive so there was not much of a retaliation for Tsee. And I am not even writing about me, since I don't really mind bites too much. That was week 1. Since then I have tried Feliway, diazepam, bach's remedies, isolation treatments, excess love and fuss, the best foods. I have had her vet checked twice and there is nothing physiologically wrong. And this is for 3 months. I can wait longer, but my other pets are now starting to get snappy and I can't handle so much at the same time.
As a kitten, Tsee was very sickly and had a perennial sneeze which got over later. Otherwise, she responded to petting, liked canned food and tolerated dry stuff as well, is spayed. I used to clip her claws but its getting harder. And if she uses teeth, there is not much I can do. And 3 months is a long time to be patient.
I don't want to rehome her for a couple of reasons. 1. Why should anyone else face the same issues? 2. I have spent a lot of money, time and effort. Too much sunk costs now to let her go. It is almost a challenge. And I cannot in my mind dream of euthanizing a cat or a dog. I love my steaks but killing pets or resident animals is not me.
Changes in environment: there was a tree by my house which fell during a storm. Otherwise, its pretty much the same. There are no diseases or issues with my other animals. I have been to the behaviorist at the shelter but he is also lost. He has referred me to another who is more experienced (or knowledgeable) which will be my last resort, but the new proposed behaviorist charges a pretty hefty fee. I am not sure whether I can again afford a 500$ bill over the months. I might be forced to but I will consider and really appreciate any suggestions first. I have waited long, so a few days longer won't hurt.
Long message. But I needed to be detailed and clear. Hope it helps.