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About a year and a half ago, my bestest buddy Jules was diagnosed with a malignant tumor on his tongue, which impaired his ability to eat and clean himself, and made him drool a lot. The vet said the cancer would spread quickly and gave him only two months to live at most - he said he wouldn't really die of the cancer, but rather he would be unable to eat.
Miraculously - and with help from the anti-inflammatory medication we got for him - Jules has defied death and has been in relative good health since his diagnosis. The vet has been amazed at his condition. He's been a bit of a sloppy eater, but otherwise he's been the same great guy I've loved for 15 years.
However, about two weeks ago, he began having more trouble eating. Out of one can of food, he could eat maybe 2/3 of it. The rest was a soupy mess he couldn't eat. I took him in and the vet said the back of his mouth has become irritated, and said this is probably the beginning of his decline.
I'm looking for someone who has been through this type of thing before. Again, the doctor said it won't be the cancer that gets him per se... rather he will not be able to eat.
Here's my fear: I'm afraid that even though he won't be able to eat anymore, he won't want to die. I hate to think that I'm going to take that final trip to the vet with him and he'll be looking at me thinking, "Hey...I don't want to die, I just want someone to help me eat!" In that sense, I don't know if I'll be able to tell if he wants to be relieved of his misery.
Is there a way to tell? At this point, I'd rather the cancer take him. I don't want to think that I'm going to take him to his demise one day when mentally he's not prepared to go. Can anyone help?
Thank you
Miraculously - and with help from the anti-inflammatory medication we got for him - Jules has defied death and has been in relative good health since his diagnosis. The vet has been amazed at his condition. He's been a bit of a sloppy eater, but otherwise he's been the same great guy I've loved for 15 years.
However, about two weeks ago, he began having more trouble eating. Out of one can of food, he could eat maybe 2/3 of it. The rest was a soupy mess he couldn't eat. I took him in and the vet said the back of his mouth has become irritated, and said this is probably the beginning of his decline.
I'm looking for someone who has been through this type of thing before. Again, the doctor said it won't be the cancer that gets him per se... rather he will not be able to eat.
Here's my fear: I'm afraid that even though he won't be able to eat anymore, he won't want to die. I hate to think that I'm going to take that final trip to the vet with him and he'll be looking at me thinking, "Hey...I don't want to die, I just want someone to help me eat!" In that sense, I don't know if I'll be able to tell if he wants to be relieved of his misery.
Is there a way to tell? At this point, I'd rather the cancer take him. I don't want to think that I'm going to take him to his demise one day when mentally he's not prepared to go. Can anyone help?
Thank you