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Hi Everyone,
I am new to this site, and I never post on forums, but I've pretty much reached the end of my knowledge and the end of what the internet can tell me about my new cat's play aggression.
My boyfriend and I just adopted a 4-year old male tuxedo cat six weeks ago and he is in general a fearless and playful cat with very high energy levels. He doesn't like to be handled much, but enjoys the occasional ear scratch.
His bad behavior is what is generally called Play Aggression. A few examples would be 1) pounce and grab while if our feet move under the covers in bed, 2) if one of us move too quickly across the room, for example, if I run to get the phone, he will immediately try to get at my ankles or calves and 3) perhaps the most worryingly, he'll stalk us around the house and pounce on us, in full on attack mode with claws and teeth out. Even when he is sitting next to me on the couch, if he sees my arm move he'll try to latch on to my elbow and start rough housing playing.
I've been in touch with the shelter behaviorist about it, and she gave me the usual tips of "lots of play, lots of toys, rotate toys so he doesn't get bored with them, no free feeding, food and treats only after playtime" but nothing seems to be working. We also do NOTHING to encourage the rough play and disengage with him the moment it starts.
Honestly, I could possibly deal with all of the above, but the biggest problems is that even after a very vigorous play session, or sometimes during it, he'll turn is attention AWAY from the toy and start going aggressively for ME. It's really quite alarming and I have no idea what to do about it. Thankfully he is only an 8 lb cat so there is a limit to how much damage he can do!
My boyfriend -- who is definitely NOT a cat person and really only barely tolerates The Cat -- whenever he sees this behavior, wants to instantly get rid of The Cat, and it's all I can do to convince him to give him another chance, but I am worried that I am also reaching the end of what I can handle. (One of my hopes was that maybe we could get a second cat to be a playmate for The Cat, but with my boyfriends attitude towards cats that's pretty much a non starter that this point.)
Any help or advice you could give would be very greatly appreciated!
I am new to this site, and I never post on forums, but I've pretty much reached the end of my knowledge and the end of what the internet can tell me about my new cat's play aggression.
My boyfriend and I just adopted a 4-year old male tuxedo cat six weeks ago and he is in general a fearless and playful cat with very high energy levels. He doesn't like to be handled much, but enjoys the occasional ear scratch.
His bad behavior is what is generally called Play Aggression. A few examples would be 1) pounce and grab while if our feet move under the covers in bed, 2) if one of us move too quickly across the room, for example, if I run to get the phone, he will immediately try to get at my ankles or calves and 3) perhaps the most worryingly, he'll stalk us around the house and pounce on us, in full on attack mode with claws and teeth out. Even when he is sitting next to me on the couch, if he sees my arm move he'll try to latch on to my elbow and start rough housing playing.
I've been in touch with the shelter behaviorist about it, and she gave me the usual tips of "lots of play, lots of toys, rotate toys so he doesn't get bored with them, no free feeding, food and treats only after playtime" but nothing seems to be working. We also do NOTHING to encourage the rough play and disengage with him the moment it starts.
Honestly, I could possibly deal with all of the above, but the biggest problems is that even after a very vigorous play session, or sometimes during it, he'll turn is attention AWAY from the toy and start going aggressively for ME. It's really quite alarming and I have no idea what to do about it. Thankfully he is only an 8 lb cat so there is a limit to how much damage he can do!
My boyfriend -- who is definitely NOT a cat person and really only barely tolerates The Cat -- whenever he sees this behavior, wants to instantly get rid of The Cat, and it's all I can do to convince him to give him another chance, but I am worried that I am also reaching the end of what I can handle. (One of my hopes was that maybe we could get a second cat to be a playmate for The Cat, but with my boyfriends attitude towards cats that's pretty much a non starter that this point.)
Any help or advice you could give would be very greatly appreciated!