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Last Saturday we adopted a seven year old black male (JC). We had him in the bathroom the first two days but he kept escaping and Pangur kept sneaking in whenever we would open the door so we gave up on the slow introduction. We were told JC was good with kids and other cats so we are hopeful the drama will end soon. We also really wanted to adopt JC because we knew his age, color, and 'cauliflower ear' made him less desirable whereas all we wanted was a family member that would fit in well.
At first it was just a lot of hissing/growling. Now a few days on there have been a few fights (four that I know of) with some fur flying but no blood. Pangur is declawed while JC is not. Mostly it is Pangur tailing JC all over the house and keeping and eye on him/nipping his rear until JC gets really annoyed and finally lashes out. Because JC seems to be a night owl Pangur has turned into one too. They spend the day snoozing under our bed (on opposite sides of course) or opposite one another in a small bay window we have turned into a 'cat room' with a bed and toys.
Yesterday I had taken JC our from under the bed and had him on top for snuggles/pets. Pangur hopped up and curled up so he was cuddled against JC's rear. It was a sweet moment or two. LOL.
I was encouraged this morning to wake up and see cat toys all over the house. I also saw JC run around quite a bit with a few balls before going to bed last night. I also saw them take turns eating out of a food dish this morning! They are both such sweet and good natured boys when they are apart. JC is just still so fearful. He has clawed me a couple of times and bitten me one of those times as well when startled while in my lap. JC still doesn't want much to do with the kids but will let them pet him.
From what I have written is there any advice or experience anyone can share? I am really hopeful the night owl thing will end in time. During most of the day if feels like we don't even have cats! Thanks.
At first it was just a lot of hissing/growling. Now a few days on there have been a few fights (four that I know of) with some fur flying but no blood. Pangur is declawed while JC is not. Mostly it is Pangur tailing JC all over the house and keeping and eye on him/nipping his rear until JC gets really annoyed and finally lashes out. Because JC seems to be a night owl Pangur has turned into one too. They spend the day snoozing under our bed (on opposite sides of course) or opposite one another in a small bay window we have turned into a 'cat room' with a bed and toys.
Yesterday I had taken JC our from under the bed and had him on top for snuggles/pets. Pangur hopped up and curled up so he was cuddled against JC's rear. It was a sweet moment or two. LOL.
I was encouraged this morning to wake up and see cat toys all over the house. I also saw JC run around quite a bit with a few balls before going to bed last night. I also saw them take turns eating out of a food dish this morning! They are both such sweet and good natured boys when they are apart. JC is just still so fearful. He has clawed me a couple of times and bitten me one of those times as well when startled while in my lap. JC still doesn't want much to do with the kids but will let them pet him.
From what I have written is there any advice or experience anyone can share? I am really hopeful the night owl thing will end in time. During most of the day if feels like we don't even have cats! Thanks.