Hey guys so I’m really in need of some good advice right now. My situation is a bit complicated so please bear with me.
So a little over two years ago I rescued my cat Commadore as a kitten off the streets while living in Philadelphia. Now he was not a stray (he was wearing a collar when I took him in) however, I almost 100% sure his previous owners abused him. He was severely malnourished, bruised all over, and was very nervous about being handled by anyone. Now thankfully after time and patients he became a healthy loving cat. However, I believe because of this abuse as a kitten he still does not like to be overly handled in anyway. So if you pet him for too long, touch him in the wrong place, or sit down next to him while he is sleeping he will let you know he is not ok with it by scratching. Sometimes it can be kind of bad, he will latch on and kick with his hind legs.
Now I’ve had him for a long time so this is not an issue with me anymore really, I understand his body language, and keep his active by playing with him regularly. It this only happens very very rarely. Normally he loves to play, be pet on the head, and act like a fairly normal cat.
Now here comes the first problem. I moved to New York City about a year ago and have had to change location a couple of times. Now not only do I feel bad about dragging this poor cat from one place to the next, but I feel bad for my new roommates (often from craigslist). It’s one thing for me, his owner who understands him and is willing to be patient and put in the time to understand him, it’s a whole other story why asking complete stranger to do the same. So a couple of months ago I decided to would find a new home for him. A home with a loving a caring owner that is willing to put in the same time and effort that I have.
Now like many of you here on this forum understand finding a home for an adult cat can be difficult, especially so when the cat requires a lot more time and attention. But I was optimistic and believed I could find a good home for it. It would just take a bit more time.
Now he comes my real problem. A couple months ago while a friend was watching Commadore he got outside and while out got in bad a fight with some other cat. Now I brought him to the vet immediately, and all of his injuries healed up very nicely. Sadly though, the blood work showed that he had contracted Feline AIDs from the other cat during the fight.
If you can imagine this complicates my situation beyond imaginable. Especially since moving into my new apartment my new roommates are not patient at all and pressuring me to do something about him. I’ve already put claw covers on him just in case he tries to scratch but they are still being difficult and I have another couple months to go on this lease, and nowhere else for him to go, and I’ll probably be moving again after that. I already know a shelter won’t take him with a preexisting condition like this because he cannot be around other cats, and I cannot imagine anyone wanting to adopt him now. The slight scratching issue is something that could have been managed but a sick cat is a whole other story. Now I understand this disease is pretty much a death sentence for cats, but they can still live for a couple years after contracting the virus and I want to be able to give this cat I love as many happy healthy years as possible.
I’m really at a loss here guys, Commadore is a great cat, and I really love him and care for him. And it is scaring me to think that putting him down might be my only option. And that is something I can’t even imagine doing unless he was really ill and no longer living a happy life. I need some advice guys. please help
So a little over two years ago I rescued my cat Commadore as a kitten off the streets while living in Philadelphia. Now he was not a stray (he was wearing a collar when I took him in) however, I almost 100% sure his previous owners abused him. He was severely malnourished, bruised all over, and was very nervous about being handled by anyone. Now thankfully after time and patients he became a healthy loving cat. However, I believe because of this abuse as a kitten he still does not like to be overly handled in anyway. So if you pet him for too long, touch him in the wrong place, or sit down next to him while he is sleeping he will let you know he is not ok with it by scratching. Sometimes it can be kind of bad, he will latch on and kick with his hind legs.
Now I’ve had him for a long time so this is not an issue with me anymore really, I understand his body language, and keep his active by playing with him regularly. It this only happens very very rarely. Normally he loves to play, be pet on the head, and act like a fairly normal cat.
Now here comes the first problem. I moved to New York City about a year ago and have had to change location a couple of times. Now not only do I feel bad about dragging this poor cat from one place to the next, but I feel bad for my new roommates (often from craigslist). It’s one thing for me, his owner who understands him and is willing to be patient and put in the time to understand him, it’s a whole other story why asking complete stranger to do the same. So a couple of months ago I decided to would find a new home for him. A home with a loving a caring owner that is willing to put in the same time and effort that I have.
Now like many of you here on this forum understand finding a home for an adult cat can be difficult, especially so when the cat requires a lot more time and attention. But I was optimistic and believed I could find a good home for it. It would just take a bit more time.
Now he comes my real problem. A couple months ago while a friend was watching Commadore he got outside and while out got in bad a fight with some other cat. Now I brought him to the vet immediately, and all of his injuries healed up very nicely. Sadly though, the blood work showed that he had contracted Feline AIDs from the other cat during the fight.
If you can imagine this complicates my situation beyond imaginable. Especially since moving into my new apartment my new roommates are not patient at all and pressuring me to do something about him. I’ve already put claw covers on him just in case he tries to scratch but they are still being difficult and I have another couple months to go on this lease, and nowhere else for him to go, and I’ll probably be moving again after that. I already know a shelter won’t take him with a preexisting condition like this because he cannot be around other cats, and I cannot imagine anyone wanting to adopt him now. The slight scratching issue is something that could have been managed but a sick cat is a whole other story. Now I understand this disease is pretty much a death sentence for cats, but they can still live for a couple years after contracting the virus and I want to be able to give this cat I love as many happy healthy years as possible.
I’m really at a loss here guys, Commadore is a great cat, and I really love him and care for him. And it is scaring me to think that putting him down might be my only option. And that is something I can’t even imagine doing unless he was really ill and no longer living a happy life. I need some advice guys. please help