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Sorry to repeat what I said in another thread.
My sister adopted a Maine Coon Mix named Martini last weekend. Four weeks ago, her cat, Sotches was put to sleep after he suffered a saddle thrombus and went into heart failure very suddenly. Sotches and my cat, Merlin, were really good friends and Merlin appeared lonely after Sotchy died. Merlin is OK with Martini at a distancebut hisses when Martini approaches. I know cats don't become friends immediately. It only took Sotches and Merlin a week but that's rare. Merlin hasn't been overtly nasty, more wary. We didn't throw them together, we kept them separate and allowed Merlin to get Martini's scent and for the two cats to become aware of each other slowly, as is recommended
I think there a few things that may be contributing:
1) Cats don't like change and what happened to Sotches was very sudden and now there's a new cat, it's a lot for a cat to process. Merlin may still be a bit confused.
2) Merlin sees everyone go to my sister's room to pet Martini, Merlin still gets attention but he's always been the one who got the most petting and cooing. He may feel some competition
At this point, he's just unsure. He is normally friendly. I'm thinking Merlin needs extra love and attention and special time dedicated to him so he knows this new cat isn't competition. They have just met face to face so I'm probably worrying too much.
My sister adopted a Maine Coon Mix named Martini last weekend. Four weeks ago, her cat, Sotches was put to sleep after he suffered a saddle thrombus and went into heart failure very suddenly. Sotches and my cat, Merlin, were really good friends and Merlin appeared lonely after Sotchy died. Merlin is OK with Martini at a distancebut hisses when Martini approaches. I know cats don't become friends immediately. It only took Sotches and Merlin a week but that's rare. Merlin hasn't been overtly nasty, more wary. We didn't throw them together, we kept them separate and allowed Merlin to get Martini's scent and for the two cats to become aware of each other slowly, as is recommended
I think there a few things that may be contributing:
1) Cats don't like change and what happened to Sotches was very sudden and now there's a new cat, it's a lot for a cat to process. Merlin may still be a bit confused.
2) Merlin sees everyone go to my sister's room to pet Martini, Merlin still gets attention but he's always been the one who got the most petting and cooing. He may feel some competition
At this point, he's just unsure. He is normally friendly. I'm thinking Merlin needs extra love and attention and special time dedicated to him so he knows this new cat isn't competition. They have just met face to face so I'm probably worrying too much.