Hey guys!
I'm new to this site. I found it a couple of days ago and I thought it would be the perfect place to ask for advise.
About 4 days ago, I brought home Callie, a beautiful half persian/domestic short hair mix who I believed would be an excellent companion when my mom and sister were out of the house and for when I would move out to go to graduate school (in about a year). After doing my research and visiting Callie at the foster mom's house, I decided to adopt her. I was very excited and confident in my decision until the night before I went to go pick her up. From then on, I've been pretty nervous/stressed. Callie has been adjusting to the new home slowly, and sometimes I am left feeling overwhelmed. She is my first cat (first pet ever actually), and while my sister is helping out with playing and cleaning, I can't help but continue to feel stressed. I feel like reading the few cat training and maintenance books that I had purchased before deciding to buy her have not really prepared me for what life would be like after bringing me home, and I've had trouble getting used to the late night escapades and carpet clawing. It hasn't been all bad though. Callie is warming up nicely to my family, and (despite her first accident today) has been excellent in regards to the litter box. I don't know if I'm just nervous because I've never experienced this before, or if it is a sign that I am just not ready for a pet. I still have a few days to decide, but I just don't know what to do. Should I consider taking her back to foster care? I really don't want to do that to her, especially after she has just started getting used to us, but I just feel so overwhelmed at times.
Any advice experienced cat owners could give me would be greatly appreciated!
I'm new to this site. I found it a couple of days ago and I thought it would be the perfect place to ask for advise.
About 4 days ago, I brought home Callie, a beautiful half persian/domestic short hair mix who I believed would be an excellent companion when my mom and sister were out of the house and for when I would move out to go to graduate school (in about a year). After doing my research and visiting Callie at the foster mom's house, I decided to adopt her. I was very excited and confident in my decision until the night before I went to go pick her up. From then on, I've been pretty nervous/stressed. Callie has been adjusting to the new home slowly, and sometimes I am left feeling overwhelmed. She is my first cat (first pet ever actually), and while my sister is helping out with playing and cleaning, I can't help but continue to feel stressed. I feel like reading the few cat training and maintenance books that I had purchased before deciding to buy her have not really prepared me for what life would be like after bringing me home, and I've had trouble getting used to the late night escapades and carpet clawing. It hasn't been all bad though. Callie is warming up nicely to my family, and (despite her first accident today) has been excellent in regards to the litter box. I don't know if I'm just nervous because I've never experienced this before, or if it is a sign that I am just not ready for a pet. I still have a few days to decide, but I just don't know what to do. Should I consider taking her back to foster care? I really don't want to do that to her, especially after she has just started getting used to us, but I just feel so overwhelmed at times.
Any advice experienced cat owners could give me would be greatly appreciated!