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post #1 of 13
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Hey guys. Whew, I've been so busy lately. I've doing fine, as long as I don't think about Alex. I really am doing pretty well. I go out virtually every night with one friend or another, and I've been staying active. I've been doing better in school now that I don't have to juggle watching out for Alex and wedding planning. I've lost weight (a whole size, woohoo!!). I'm less stressed now that I only worry about myself, instead of wondering if Alex will follow through on his commitments, too. So things are OK.

I still am lonely sometimes, and I do miss him. But he's been making me mad. He said he'd open a new bank account, since he works at a bank and it would be easier for him. (We have joint accounts.) He said he'd let me use the joint one as my own until I could open a new one. Well, he's still been using the joint one!!!! Grrrrr . . . this is just not cool. I'm going to go have to pull my share out of there now, which just makes things all the more complicated. It really gets me that he said he wouldn't and then he did. So, I don't know what's going to happen there.

Well, just wanted to say hi to you guys, and let you know I'm still here. I just don't have regular access to a computer like I used to, so I can't come around as often.
post #2 of 13
Hi Viva! Miss you lots on here! Please take care of yourself, ok? You're in my thoughts Hon!
post #3 of 13
Hi Viva, glad to hear the update, and know that you're getting on ok! Whenever you can drop in we're happy to hear how you are. Another 'Take care of yourself' from here
post #4 of 13
It's just great to hear from you and know that you're doing well. Put an end to that join-account nonsense !
post #5 of 13
Good to see you Viva, and I'm glad that you are doing OK.

I think you should just pull out your share from the account and do whatever YOU need to, to take care of yourself.

Honestly, as much as I love my husband, I really miss being single sometimes. For exactly the reasons you said....don't have to worry about whether he will or won't, don't have to coordinate plans, can just be selfish (which is really nice sometimes!).
post #6 of 13
Hey viva, good to hear that you are feeling a whole lot better. I lose almost two dress size when I first broke up and those feelings will gradually go away and life will resume normal again.
as for the joint account, mine and his has not yet been closed cos we needed to find time to meet up to close it but yet he refused to meet up with me.. oh well, it ain't lots of money...so be it...
post #7 of 13
Good to hear from you Viva! Keep taking care of yourself and enjoying life being single and independent! It can be so nice to have quality time with good friends. I would definitely pull my money out of the joint account and start an individual one though just so you can be organized and not have to worry.

Take good care and check in again soon!
post #8 of 13
Hey Viva!
I´m so glad you are keeping busy and feeling better!
Did the two of you already have that dinner together he asked you to?
Keep beeing busy and happy!
post #9 of 13
hey viva, glad to see you're still among the living girl! you sound like you're doing fine and i agree with everyone else; end that Joint account NONSENSE!!
post #10 of 13
Viva, hun it's so good to hear from you!

Take Care & I agree with what everyone else has said
post #11 of 13
Hey! Miss you bunches! Take care of yourself and Luna!!
post #12 of 13
Viva - I am glad that you are doing ok! We are here for you when you need us. Focus on school, Luna and your friends and things will keep getting better!
post #13 of 13

I'm so happy that you're doing good. Congratulations on weight loss although it didn't look like you needed to lose any to begin with!!

Keep your head up and give Luna lotsa love! We miss ya, and look forward to seeing more of you again!
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