In Grade School

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In kindergarten your idea of a good friend was the person who let you have the red crayon when all that was left was the ugly black one.

In first grade your idea of a good friend was the person who went to
the bathroom with you and held your hand as you walked through the
scary halls.

In second grade your idea of a good friend was the person who helped you stand up to the class bully.

In third grade your idea of a good friend was the person who shared
their lunch with you when you forgot yours on the bus.

In fourth grade your idea of a good friend was the person who was
willing to switch square dancing partners in gym so you wouldn't have to be stuck do-si-do-ing with Nasty Nick or Smelly Susan.

In fifth grade your idea of a friend was the person who saved a seat on the back of the bus for you.

In sixth grade your idea of a friend was the person who went up to
Nick or Susan, your new crush, and asked them to dance with you, so
that if they said no you wouldn't have to be embarrassed.

In seventh grade your idea of a friend was the person who let you copy the social studies homework from the night before that you had.

In eighth grade your idea of a good friend was the person who helped you pack up your stuffed animals and old baseball but didn't laugh at you when you finished and broke out into tears.

In ninth grade your idea of a good friend was the person who would go to a party thrown by a senior so you wouldn't wind up being the only freshman there.

In tenth grade your idea of a good friend was the person who changed their schedule so you would have someone to sit with at lunch.

In eleventh grade your idea of a good friend was the person who gave you rides in their new car, convinced your parents that you shouldn't be grounded, consoled you when you broke up with Nick or Susan, and found you a date to the prom.

In twelfth grade your idea of a good friend was the person who helped you pick out a college/university, assured you that you would get into that college/university, helped you deal with your parents who were having a hard time adjusting to the idea of letting you go...

At graduation your idea of a good friend was the person who was crying on the inside but managed the biggest smile one could give as they congratulated you.

The summer after twelfth grade your idea of a good friend was the
person who helped you clean up the bottles from that party, helped you sneak out of the house when you just couldn't deal with your parents, assured you that now that you and Nick or you and Susan were back together, you could make it through anything, helped you pack up for university and just silently hugged you
as you looked through blurry eyes at 18 years of memories you were
leaving behind, and finally on those last days of childhood, went out of their way to give you reassurance that you would make it in college as well as you had these past
18 years, and most importantly sent you off to college knowing you were loved.

Now, your idea of a good friend is still the person who gives you the better of the two choices, holds your hand when you're scared, helps you fight off those who try to take advantage of you, thinks of you at times when you are not there, reminds you of what you have forgotten, helps you put the past behind you but understands when you need to hold on to it a little longer,
stays with you so that you have confidence, goes out of their way to make time for you, helps you clear up your mistakes, helps you deal with pressure from others, smiles for you when they are sad, helps you become a better person.
 

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If your idea of a good friend is all that, you are yourself that type of a good friend to others.
 

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Very true and I am going to send that to my best friend. We have been friends for 18 years!
 

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My best friend Paula is exactly like that. We met at a slumber party in 1973. On Halloween night we will have been best friends for 30 years. It was like I met my kindred spirit that night. We have been through so much in that 30 years. High School, graduation, college, we lived together for eight years, my mother's death, her marriage and birth to Halley (my Goddaughter). She is my best buddy and my chosen sister.

When we went on vacation this summer, even Halley noticed that we don't finish sentences before the other one is answering. Halley asked, how did you know what she was going to say? We didn't even realize we were doing it. We told her - Mama and Auntie Nora just think alike.lol
 

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Originally posted by Nora


When we went on vacation this summer, even Halley noticed that we don't finish sentences before the other one is answering. Halley asked, how did you know what she was going to say? We didn't even realize we were doing it. We told her - Mama and Auntie Nora just think alike.lol
My friend and I do that all of the time - freaks some people out!
 

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Ady,

It does freak people out. When we were in our 20's we were at a party and someone was talking about a Paul. I looked at Paula and said, "Is that Paul - Paul?" and she answered - "No that is the other Paul they are talking about." The room went silent.
 

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Anna and I love doing that! The thing we love the most is we are in a mall and see some weird person or thing and we have the exact same reaction/comment to make!
 
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