After 18 years of life I've finally decided to have my old lady kitty put to sleep. I've always known that she wasn't going to live forever and dreaded the day it would have to happen, but it still doesn't make it any easier. She's gotten to where she doesn't groom herself at all, steps in her poop and gets it stuck in her fur, and doesn't do much besides sleep. Doing the daily brushing necessary to keep her looking decent and washing her at least once a week when it takes her overnight to dry is super traumatic for her, and I don't want to wait until she goes completely downhill to do something about it. I feel horrible about it, though, because she acts like her old self sometimes and still shows me some love when I offer her kitty treats. She's never been a friendly cat, so it's hard to tell how she's feeling some of the time but I don't think I should keep dragging her along.
I've already made the decision and had my mom make the appointment for her on Friday (I didn't feel like calling myself), with the vet that we usually use. My mom offered to go with me for it, but I don't really want to have folks go along with me. She and my father are going to come by tomorrow night to say bye to her, and I got her a can of super special cat food for that morning. I guess I just need reassuring words from other people that have also had to go through this rough time...
I've already made the decision and had my mom make the appointment for her on Friday (I didn't feel like calling myself), with the vet that we usually use. My mom offered to go with me for it, but I don't really want to have folks go along with me. She and my father are going to come by tomorrow night to say bye to her, and I got her a can of super special cat food for that morning. I guess I just need reassuring words from other people that have also had to go through this rough time...