How do you get over the fear of cats fighting?. I have had cats my whole adult life but only two at a time. I never really had any problems with just two and when we got the 3rd there was not a problem, but when we got the fourth one things changed. It has been really bad. We have been working on the situation for 8 long months. It is finally, finally starting to get better ( I hope I did not just jinx it by saying that). I know that it is normal for cats to get into spats with each other and I should just get over my fear about it but it is hard when you have only had cats that have always gotten along. I just don't like the sound of hissing and growling. One of the cats was even spitting. I had never heard that before. Like I said though, it is getting better. I guess I just need some support so I can get over my fear of what might happen.