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I've posted about this poor kitty before, but thought maybe I would give her a thread of her own as she has been through so much.  Back in the fall before the weather turned cold I notice this little ginger cat (who I assumed was a male) hanging around and trying to sneak food on our porch.  At that time I was feeding our 3 born-feral kittens outside and working on getting them socialized to be adopted.  Ha, we ended up with all 3, now lovely indoor/outdoor cats, but that's another story.  Ditto their mother Patience who started all this; she too has moved indoors with the cold weather and shows no sign of leaving. 

But on with Little Ginger.  I noticed a nasty nasal and eye discharge and tried to contact the people a few doors down where I discovered he sleeps on their porch in an old cat carrier to try to convince them to get him to a vet and also get him neutered.  They didn't want to know about it, even though I offered to share the bills.  I had some leftover antibiotics from a bacterial infection with my brood, so I just gave them to him over the course of a few days and the infection cleared up.  But then the cold was coming on so I went again and tried to persuade them to improve shelter and feeding conditions. No success.  After our first snow I saw the guy who lives there shoveling so I went over to have another try.  Again no luck ... "it's my wife's cat she, looks after him", "he's just a street cat" and finally "my English isn't good" sigh.  So I went home and grabbed a bag of straw left over from Mama Patience's insulated cat shelter on our porch and a big heavy duty garbage bag, and pretty much barged my way in and insisted on improving the shelter.  There was  only a partially frozen old pillow and small blanket inside - which I removed and put to use as outside insulation on the exposed side of the carrier - and I put the batch of straw inside and covered the whole thing with the garbage bag.  Little Ginger immediately ran in and started burrowing in the straw, so that was a bit better but still ...

These people are hardly ever to be seen and all Little Ginger to eat was kibble, often crusty or wet, so I started taking over leftover wet food / kibble mix from our gang, who are fussy and often leave uneaten food, so I figured put it to use instead of throwing in the garbage.  Little Ginger started sniffing my fingers and saying hello and allowing head rubs, and over the weeks the feeding became a regular evening thing.  Then came the deep freeze, and conditions went from bad to terrible.  The water and kibble were frozen and there was no reply when I rang the door bell, I even left a note to call me, but nothing.  I was feeding LG wet food mixed with hot water regularly, but then came the night of 4 degrees here in NJ.  I braved the cold to take the food and ... well I kind of encouraged her to come home with me, which was the beginning of our convalescent visitor.  I put LG in our Florida room isolated from our four (for health and social reasons) with an electric heater, snuggle bed and litter box, and started regular feeding and attempts to socialize.  Very successful, but this poor little cat had matted fur, again eye and nasal discharge and raspy breathing which improved only marginally.

So a few days back I took LG to the vet, which is when I discovered "he" was a "she"!  Diagnosed with a nasty upper respiratory infection but happily negative for FeLV and AIDS and organ systems ok, but malnourished and with flea dirt though no fleas (probably frozen - but he gave her Revolution to be safe).  She was soooo bad at the vet despite having let me put her in the carrier and drive her their no problem; had to be sedated for the blood work and antibiotic shot.  Maybe just as well as my vet was then able to clean out her nose, eyes and ears and give her a proper exam.  Then back to the Florida room where she has done not much other than eat, sleep and use the litter box (hey, that's a plus) but her breathing is improving and she purrs and lets me stroke her more and more.  It's difficult keeping her isolated from our lot (the respiratory infection is likely contagious) and I'll probably let her out tomorrow so I can vacuum and mop the Florida room.  I fear she will go right back to her abusive environment, but at least now she knows where to come for help and food, and even if she stays away I will keep monitoring and feeding her.  Next step will be getting her spayed!

So here is a message to all.  What stopped me helping this cat better and sooner?  Fear that "her people" would retaliate, even prosecute me for trespassing on their property and/or taking their cat.  But our vet made a very good point, nobody "owns" a feral or stray.  And neglecting an animal like this, especially leaving him or her outside in frigid conditions without proper food and shelter is cruel and abusive.  He also said if I had any issues with the people he would attest to what bad condition Little Ginger was in and how vital it was to get her treatment and bring her inside.  So -- if you see a cat in horrible conditions like this, do please take the action that your heart dictates, and get a caring vet in your corner.

I will post pictures soon, I have some, just have to figure out how to upload them.  

I know this is a small thing compared with those of you who are caring for whole colonies, but even one life saved and improved is something to celebrate.  It is a sacrifice for us, yet another big vet bill and like most of you we aren't in great financial shape (funny that isn't it - those of us with the fewest resources care the most) but my conscience is clear for having done the right thing.  Just wish I had done it sooner and not let fear of reprisal stand in my way.

God bless all caring for the uncared for.
 

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You have a heart of gold, and I am so thankful there are others like myself who have a true compassion for the helpless innocent ones, left to the elements and without proper care.

As I read on LG's story, I was hoping to reach a point where she will be more 'yours' rather than the neighbors who call her 'just a stray'......that just urks me.

I'm not sure if you let her go back out because she was their cat or if you are unable to add yet another.

I might have been too tempted to let her stay there, see if the neighbors EVER came asking or not, I bet not.

At least she is well now, and knows she is cared about, she has a better if not ideal, place to sleep during the freezing cold, and fed better food that is warm for her.

Very sweet story.

Oh, I meant to point out my sig saying under my name, the "saving one cat", this couldn't be truer.
 
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Hi Catwoman

I would keep her for sure, but first we have four already in our small house, including  still semi-feral mama Patience, which is a real squeeze, and second I don't think she will want to stay - the one time I let her out she ran straight back to her former place. and I had to go and retrieve her.  Having said that, I thought the same thing with Patience and here she is a fixture in our house despite her issues (like hissing at her kits and being more miss than hit with the litter box) so we shall see, one day at a time.  Right now I'm waiting for her to be over her respiratory infection so she doesn't give it to our cats.  I'd like to find her a proper home but given the huge number of cute lovey kittens desperate for homes, and that she is -- well kind of challenged in the looks and behavior department - I don't hold out a lot of hope.  So my most realistic expectation is that she will be an outside cat with option to come in when the weather is bad.  Also we have a proper outdoor shelter that was for Patience, well insulated with lots of straw inside, and now she knows where that is she will have another option.  We shall see.  Rest assured she will not be abandoned to fend for herself.

The neighbors have not looked for her at all to my knowledge.  I hope they think she froze to death and feel guilty, horrible uncaring people. I try to excuse them that maybe they don't have money for proper care, but how much does it cost to open your door? 
 

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Exactly my thoughts! I LOVE your decription for the neighbors :)!!

I appreciate your outlook on the situation, day at a time leaves alot of options available.

I'm so happy for her getting your help!
 

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Thank you so much for helping her.  Whatever you do, it is obviously more than her "owners" are doing!  Perhaps a warmer house nearer to your house?  If Patience will allow her to co-exist in the yard, that is.  Tough situation but you are doing your best.

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Hi Ondine

Indeed Patience's shelter (on our porch, well insulated with plenty of straw inside) will be one option for Little Ginger over the winter, especially since Patience has moved inside and shows no interest in going out into the big bad world (smart cat!). But for now LG is still inside recuperating in our Florida room, so we will wait until her health  improves before taking the next step.  It would be great if Patience (or one of our 3 rescue kittens, now close to adult cats) would adopt her, but we need to wait until she is no longer infectious before trying.  Meantime she is doing better, sleeping and eating a lot which is what she needs.  She is still a bit congested so I am keeping her in for now until her breathing is better and she puts on more weight.  As long as she is happy in her rather confined quarters I am happy to keep her there. 

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Oh, I missed that.  What made me think she went back outside?  Well, good for you.  I wouldn't worry one iota about the neighbors or what they think.  She's safe now.

If they insist on having her back (which I seriously doubt), tell them fine - but they owe you vet costs.  They'll either say forget it or push the subject, at which time you can tell them you'll be happy to report them for animal cruelty.

People (like that) make me crazy!  People like you make me feel a lot better.
 

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It sounds like the neighbors don't really care one way or the other what happens to her.  That's probably for the better, at least this way she gets a nice place to sleep and medical care.  Keep her in for a few more days until she kind of puts the vet trip behind her.  If she seems happy, she will probably stick around, and who could blame her if she has a nice warm bed and full bowl to come home to? 

I have a feral that I call Ginger too!  She won't come near us, but she peeks around the corner of the house when we come out sometimes.  She did give us one of the sweetest, most loveable lap kittens ever though! 
 

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:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :heart2: :heart2: :heart2: THANK YOU!!!!!!!!! :bigthumb:

Yes, one day at a time. She's getting the love and care she needs.... and just see what happens from there. :heart2:
 

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I am so happy to read that Little Ginger is in your home getting cared for, rest and love.  Even if you do have to put her back outside, she will know that you are there for her.  Maybe she will move into Patience's old house.  I look forward to hearing more about Little Ginger and her journey.
 

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Good for you (and LG)! You said that you feel like helping one cat is a small thing, compared to those who care for colonies....I wholeheartedly disagree!! Every single cat matters, as well as every single act of kindness.

It is certainly a big deal to Little Ginger and that is what is most important. You have changed her world! I wish there were more people like you out there :hugs: Good people do what they can to help others and you are a good person, doing what you can. I have noticed, too, that is seems like those with the least resources tend be the ones willing to care! Maybe it is a sense of kinship with others who are struggling, human or furry.

Thank you so much for opening your home (and wallet) for this sweet little girl. Your vet sounds pretty awesome, too. Hopefully, others will read your story and realize that it is possible to help a cat in distress, even if it appears to be under the 'care' of a neighbor. That will also help to make a difference in the world. Well done :clap:
 
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We have more progress today.  Her breathing is much better and she has stopped snuffling, and only one eye is running a little.  She still won't let me clean her face (grabs the wash cloth and growls at me) but tonight for the first time she began cleaning herself after dinner, so that is a big step forward; to date she has just been eating and sleeping (and thankfully using the litter box).

this morning as I worked late I washed her bed and bedding and changed her litter box to rid us of germs.  My husband returned her bed and blanket once it was thoroughly dry (we had a gorgeous day today) but the cleaning obviously annoyed her; she was sulking in her cat carrier when I got home from work and came out to greet me with a hiss and swat when I asked how she was - until food arrived of course!  I think she is testing her boundaries as well as establishing her space.  Our four all went out to play (great commotion as Picassa caught a mouse!) but Little Ginger showed no interest in going outside so business as usual for now.  A little socialization is beginning as I am leaving the door to the Florida room open a crack when I am there to watch - still keeping them separated until I am sure she is not infectious and in case of any fighting.  She is all hiss and spit and swatting, no nasty claws or teeth, so I am hopeful they might eventually get along. 

A big laugh tonight, a black cat showed up by our yard (clearly not a stray, a sleek guy probably like ours let out to enjoy the balmy weather after weeks of cabin fever).  Led by the redoubtable Mr. Patches, our kits firmly saw him off the premises and sat there on guard, it was hilarious.  Poor fellow probably was just looking for some company, but "not on our patch"!  Cats!!!

thanks everyone for the support and kind words, and yes we are very fortunate to have an awesome and supportive vet.

best wishes to all and prayers that the mild weather continues long enough for everyone to get back home.
 
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Good for you (and LG)! You said that you feel like helping one cat is a small thing, compared to those who care for colonies....I wholeheartedly disagree!! Every single cat matters, as well as every single act of kindness.

It is certainly a big deal to Little Ginger and that is what is most important. You have changed her world! I wish there were more people like you out there :hugs: Good people do what they can to help others and you are a good person, doing what you can. I have noticed, too, that is seems like those with the least resources tend be the ones willing to care! Maybe it is a sense of kinship with others who are struggling, human or furry.

Thank you so much for opening your home (and wallet) for this sweet little girl. Your vet sounds pretty awesome, too. Hopefully, others will read your story and realize that it is possible to help a cat in distress, even if it appears to be under the 'care' of a neighbor. That will also help to make a difference in the world. Well done :clap:
:yeah: SO well put! :clap:

:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: !!!!!
 
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Well Little Ginger is still with us.  Her respiratory infection is much improved but she is still a little congested, especially in the mornings, so she is still in the Florida room.  She spends almost all of her time sleeping in her carrier except when eating, but we have progressed to her allowing a few pets and a little light brushing before the growling and hissing resumes.  I tried cracking the door so she could see and smell the other cats, but this seems to make her nervous so I've only been doing it for short periods when I am there to watch.  Plus I worry she still may be infectious and I don't want them actually in the same room with her.  So, slow going.  I'm waiting for the day she shows signs of exploring, wanting to go outside or come inside or play (I have her a few toys) but I guess she is still in full on recovery mode.  Next week we have a follow up with the vet so we will see if she has any other health problems, hopefully she will  not behave so badly this time!  At least she is eating well and using the litter box, so all seems well in the digestive department.  An odd one is that she refuses to eat kibble, only wet food - I don't  know if that means a problem with her teeth or turning her back on the only food she seemed to have before now she has something better! 

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Well she's a smart cookie - the wet food is so much better for her anyway! ;)

Yes, whenever we've rescued older ferals that weren't 100% health-wise, they spent several weeks just sleeping. VERY much like they were just relieved to be safe and comfortable. :heart2: : rub:

I'm sorry it's taking her a while to recover - but you're a love for giving her the time she needs. :hugs:
 
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An amazing update.  I got home from work and found the Florida room door open to the house and no sign of LG.  OMG what happened I asked my DH, who was working on fixing a glitchy ceiling fan in the bathroom.  He was preoccupied -  "I don't know - she must be somewhere".  So there I was prepared for the BIG SEARCH until I saw her sitting calmly in the kitchen mat!  She came up to me when I went to ask how she was (no growling, wow) and seemed quite confident in her right to be there. Her breathing seems fine and no discharge (my first concern after finding her) but I might give her another steam treatment tonight just in case. The other cats seem to be ignoring her, going about their business.  Feeding time was interesting, LG ended up eating in the basement in Mama Patience's favorite spot on top of a shelf - so Mama is pouting, but a big step toward socialization.

My DH says we should give her a proper name, thinking about that - my first instinct is to stay with "Little Ginger" but we al  I really must get some pics of her and figure out to upload them and those of the other cats.  Incidentally, my mother tells me the collective name for cats is "a KINDLE" how about that!

the only bad thing, now mama Patience has diarrhea, sigh another trip to the vet!
 

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Yea Little Ginger!!  She was ready to come into the house and make herself comfortable.  Hopefully she continues on the mend and acclimates herself to your brood.

I brought a stray/feral cat into my home in late May.  He had been living on and around my deck since Dec 2012.  He was an orange kitty and I had no idea what to call him.  So naturally I called him Orange Kitty.  I did TNR with him and he was still known as Orange Kitty.  When spring arrived, I wanted to find a rescue to take him as he was causing territorial issues with my other ferals.  It was kitten season and no one would take him.  So I decided to give it a shot and bring him in the house.  He now needed a proper name.  I changed his name to Marvin and he evolved into a beautiful sole.  No more Orange kitty. 

Hopefully Patience will be ok.  Diarrhea is no fun!!
 

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Bless you, Bless you!!!  So happy to read how great she is doing.  About the adopting, ..........I think she has adopted you! 
  
 
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Yes, I think she is moving in, and my DH is starting to refer to us as having five cats now!  She's still not socializing, mainly staying in Mama's old favorite spot on top of the shelving unit in the basement.  But the good thing (apart from the financial blessing of not having to run an expensive electric heater in the Florida room) is that the shelf is level with the middle of the steps and she can see me and the other cats come up and down to the basement (which we often do) from a safe perch.  I have discovered she likes being sung to, her favorite relax and be petted song being a silly little ditty to the tune of "Tattooed Lady" ...  "she's just a little girl, a little ginger girl, but such a pretty girl, my little ginger girl" etc. She's a smart girl, she found "the overflow" litter box in the basement (the main one is in the kitchen) and has been using it meticulously, which makes me wonder if at some time she might have been an indoor cat?  It took me ages to get Patience to use the litter box and sometimes she is still a bit hit and miss!  The vet was not sure how old LG is  iven her malnourished condition, but she is not a baby!

One worrying thing is that several times after I've given her a "steaming" with a big pot of boiled water (the vet advised a steamy bathroom, but that was a disaster!) she had big sneezes, and  brought out  quite a big stream of clear mucus.  I think this is an improvement over the nasty yellow gunky stuff she had from nose and eyes before the antibiotics, and indicates she is getting the congestion out of her system, but maybe it is still germ laden?  She has a follow up vet visit next week, but any advice from anyone who has experienced nursing a half-starved cat over a respiratory infection much appreciated.  The last thing I want is for the other cats to get sick, although they are not in direct contact with her.  I am changing and washing her towel and little microfiber blanket daily just in case, and making sure she eats and drinks from separate, frequently washed dishes.

Our resident cats are trying hard to make friends. LG came to watch while I was doing laundry today and Miss Picassa brought down her prized possession, her catnip mouse, and offered it to her with an invitation to join in the pouncing game.  Such a nice gesture, but LG was having none of it and hid behind the laundry basket and growled.  Miss P kept trying, even rolling over exposing her belly to show her good intentions, but ... no good.  Oh well, with amazing, generous spirited cats like these (themselves feral rescues so likely understand) who try so hard to make a newcomer welcome I'm sure they will succeed in the end.  Only Patience holds aloof, but then she is barely socialized herself, having only just got to the point of sleeping on the couch and letting Picassa snuggle up next to her (another huge breakthrough by the way vs. hissing at her kits).


thanks everyone on the site who has responded to our story,  I am touched and encouraged by the support.  Like LG, we are blessed by help from strangers - who turn out to be not strangers but  friends


.... and what was that lovely line again about helping one cat makes the world of difference to that one cat?
 
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