How awful and what a horrible experience for all of you. She was beautiful. I lost my Mylo suddenly three weeks ago and could never have been prepared for the grief I felt and still do. And sure my other two cats feel it. Even the dog who still wants to go outside to bring him in as he did each night. The first few days I knew nothing could replace him. Then I thought about it and looked at other kittens. But then back to where I am now that it's him I miss and no one could take his place in our house. And I feel the others would be thrown by a stranger coming in when they are so unsettled so for now I am throwing myself into reassuring them and loving them as much as humanly possible. But grieving is different for everyone. May sound odd but when a person passes you have so much and so many peoples feelings to deal with. When you lose a pet you just have a big hole in your home and your heart and a feeling of guilt from not being able to keep them safe no matter how much you wanted to. And that voice in your head that says it's only a cat as many would think. But it isn't. And you need to allow yourself to be sad and mad and however you need to be. And when it feels right you can give a lovely home to another kitty. But only when your ready to move on. I hope you feel better soon and so sorry. Don't beat yourself up over the autopsy. She is playing on rainbow bridge either way. Much love for you and your angel kitten. X