And Then There Were Two

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I knew when we hung two window hammocks in our motorhome .. that one day there would be two. 
We have had an amazing 60+hrs now since the introduction of Monty to his new forever home and his big brother Si.  

We feel very fortunate that the shelter we rescued from listened to all of our thoughts on Si's personality and recommended another very sweet, laid back kitten named Monty.   On the actual introductions, we went with our gut feeling, based on Si's curiosity and body language.  Monty had a full 24hrs of peace and quiet to let him settle in.   We did let Si see and hear him meow in the carrier when we brought him home, and Si remained ever vigilant watching the crack at the bottom of the bathroom door.   He displayed no growling or hissing even when one of us was playing with Monty play near the door.  

Morning two, we cracked the door to let them see each other face to face and Si immediately went into a low grumbling growl with a few hisses.  Monty was unphased.  We shut the door, fed both guys on opposite sides of the door and swapped out playing with  and rubbing each of them in different rooms.   After nap time and another round of heavy playing with each, we again positioned ourselves to be near each of them and opened the door.  Si remained motionless, staring at Monty.  Si's ears remained forward and alert and he showed no sign of attacking so we both sat there watching them watch each other.   When Si walked away Monty tried to follow so we let them be together (ready to grab one if need be) in the middle of the kitchen floor.   Si gave us all a good talking to, but again, no body language indicating a possible attack.  No bristled fur, nothing.

By the evening Si was just staying out of Monty's way as we played 'da Bird with him in the living room.  If Monty walked away Si cautiously followed him.  Still occasionally hissing and he did give him a little boop swat to the head when Monty got too close.  No screaming so we knew it was a no-claw boop.

On day three of introductions we decided Si was exhibiting the tolerance we had felt and hope he would so while watching them both like a hawk as they traversed the motorhome, we saw a few crazy kitten spurts from Monty that made Si give chase.  Although when he would catch him he would hiss and walk away.  That didn't last but another 2-3hrs at most.

By last night there were 8 feet thundering from one end of the house to the other.  They have started play wrestling a LOT.   Monty just charges back for more.  We're still getting used to the sounds they make while playing.  But I try to check my knee-jerk reaction to step in unless it sounds way too rowdy.  They are making a million noises wrestling now, they are eating side by side and Si has let Monty just stick his head into his own food bowl with not even a swat.  I do grab Monty however, as I have not started his transition to a wet kitten food yet. 

To say we are totally thrilled that our two boys are getting along is an understatement!  There is no grooming or sleeping together yet.  They will sleep 'near' one another but all of that is fine.  Them being happy with one another is the most important.
 

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I am so beyond happy and thrilled for you and Si and Monty. Introducing a second cat can have its drawbacks, but it sounds like all the thought and care that went into the decision paid off. Congratulations. I think they will be best buds in no time at all.
 
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OMG .. only you wonderful folks here and my hubby could possibly understand the tears of happiness in my eyes, when our new boy Monty (here for only 4 full days now) jumped into the dining room chair with our older boy Si.  Si actually spent about 5-10min grooming him before they dozed off on my flannel jacket. 

 

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Sweet!!! I wish my 3 would cuddle!  Occasionally I catch Abby and Katie in the cat bed. I don't know who initiates it, I think possibly Katie.  But I've only seen it a few times.
 

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Yes, that is a wonderful feeling. I had it only 3 days after the "formal" introduction between my boy and new sister... meaning I had been doing scent swapping for a week beforehand. in my case they cuddled right before me on the bed. My heart nearly exploded. And now they play and groom each other... really great.

Good for you and good to hear. (And you give me such hope too, two cats in a RV - gotta be smaller than my condo.)
 

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Here is my first cuddle. Just 3 days after formal introduction. Great feeling.

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Yes, that is a wonderful feeling. I had it only 3 days after the "formal" introduction between my boy and new sister... meaning I had been doing scent swapping for a week beforehand. in my case they cuddled right before me on the bed. My heart nearly exploded. And now they play and groom each other... really great.

Good for you and good to hear. (And you give me such hope too, two cats in a RV - gotta be smaller than my condo.)
It's a 40' RV .. but yes, even we compared it to our first 'efficiency' apartment when each of us left home.  LOL   We have about 300sq ft of actual living space, and of course both cats have more than that including the dash, counter tops, window hammocks and any nook they can find to climb onto or into   Of course we get outdoors a lot too; even Si on his harness.  Still a ways until the weather warms back up a bit here in Texas, but we're hopeful that once Monty sees Si going outdoors that it will be easy to convince him to wear a harness and come explore the outdoors too :)
 

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Beautiful picture! Bless their hearts! Congratulations on your new addition. I hope you'll all have many happy years together. 
 
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The boys did great yesterday.  Their first day, alone, in the house together when we had to go back to work.  Luckily we're able to check on them frequently and found a lot of napping going on.   My DH & I are having a ball watching them thunder through the house playing, and then settling in to groom each other. 
     Oddly enough, it has made our older boy even more affectionate with us than he was.   Si has always been a love bug on his terms but now it seems he's actively seeking one of us out to cuddle with.   He has never slept up between us or anything like that, always in his bed at the foot of the bed.  I awoke in the middle of the night to find Si curled up under one of my arms with his head on my chest.  And turned my head towards the DH to find a kitten butt in my face since Monty was jammed up between us laying on his daddy.  Sure loved that feeling.
 
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Nap time for my boys.  Monty leads the top of the pic.  Even at  4mos old he is almost as long as Si who is a full year older. 
 
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