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I would very much appreciate any suggestions from the forum. I have a beautiful, sweet neutered 13 lb 9 month old male Siberian cat, my first pet so naturally I'm super-anxious about everything. That is, he's sweet for 23 hours a day. But, every night at 11pm on the dot, he goes after me with teeth and claws. I know it's just play aggression, but it's honestly pretty frightening. At that time I'm in bed, usually asleep, and he jumps onto the bed, pounces on me and bites my face or arm. He usually manages to inhibit his bite but often he gets carried away and draws blood.
I have tried the following:
- playing with him for at least 1 hour (up to 3 hours) then feeding him a big meal right before bed. That doesn't even slow him down. Yes, I have lots of different kinds of toys and switch them up frequently.
- throwing a toy to redirect him as soon as he jumps up on the bed. He ignores it and fixes his stare right on me (eyes fully dilated, ears up).
- Saying "no" loudly and pointing at him.
- Hissing at him. He paid no attention.
- Scruffing him, pushing him down to the bed and saying "no". No effect.
- Firing a compressed air can. That terrified him so much I will NEVER do that again. Water doesn't make sense - he probably wouldn't feel it and I'd end up with a wet bed.
- Lying absolutely still and completely ignoring him
- Giving him some food right at 11pm (he eats it then comes in to attack me).
Nothing works to prevent this. It happens every night. Note also, I'm in a small 1 bedroom apartment, so lack of space is almost certainly aggravating the problem. Yes, I have 2 cat trees. Yes, I plan to move but it will take time to arrange. No, I can't just stay up until midnight when his banshee-time is over. And yes, I am planning on getting a second kitten. I'm apparently a glutton for punishment :-) In the meantime I've had to shut him out of the bedroom at night, but neither of us are happy about that. He likes to be petted during the day but he's not a cuddly lap cat, so my only snuggle time with him is at night.
I have tried the following:
- playing with him for at least 1 hour (up to 3 hours) then feeding him a big meal right before bed. That doesn't even slow him down. Yes, I have lots of different kinds of toys and switch them up frequently.
- throwing a toy to redirect him as soon as he jumps up on the bed. He ignores it and fixes his stare right on me (eyes fully dilated, ears up).
- Saying "no" loudly and pointing at him.
- Hissing at him. He paid no attention.
- Scruffing him, pushing him down to the bed and saying "no". No effect.
- Firing a compressed air can. That terrified him so much I will NEVER do that again. Water doesn't make sense - he probably wouldn't feel it and I'd end up with a wet bed.
- Lying absolutely still and completely ignoring him
- Giving him some food right at 11pm (he eats it then comes in to attack me).
Nothing works to prevent this. It happens every night. Note also, I'm in a small 1 bedroom apartment, so lack of space is almost certainly aggravating the problem. Yes, I have 2 cat trees. Yes, I plan to move but it will take time to arrange. No, I can't just stay up until midnight when his banshee-time is over. And yes, I am planning on getting a second kitten. I'm apparently a glutton for punishment :-) In the meantime I've had to shut him out of the bedroom at night, but neither of us are happy about that. He likes to be petted during the day but he's not a cuddly lap cat, so my only snuggle time with him is at night.