Sissy has most always had gobs of nasty brown and black stuff in her ears! I'm not sure if it's ear mites though because Hooite's ears are okay, wouldn't both cats have ear mites? I try to clean Sissy's ears as best I can and last year I bought some ear mite treatment from the pet store but they both hate it and won't let me near them with the stuff and the directions say to apply it like three times a day (yeah right!) How can I help Sissy's poor ears?