May I vent a little, please?

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Yesterday, I got a call from my friend, the supreme cat rescuer.  Her husband recently had a stroke, so she needed my help with a stray.  I got the kitty and put her in my shed, which is equipped with three large crates attached to one another.  I call it my en suite.  Anyway, poor kitty is bag of bones skinny.  I fed her some wet kitten food, which she inhaled.  Just as I came back inside, my neighbor knocked on the door and told me that another neighbor had moved and left their cat!  I went over and found him huddled at the back door, crying.  He's in good shape and so sweet.  I was able to put him in a section of my outdoor enclosure that has it's own little house and potty.

Anyway, on the way back to my house with the carrier in my hand, a third neighbor stopped me and asked me if I could take her kitten.  Their landlord had made a surprise visit and because their lease says "no cats", she had "to get rid of it".  This neighbor and the one who abandoned the cat are the only renters on our street, thank goodness.

All this was stressful enough but the thing that lit my torch was this woman's daughter.  She has a 4 year old who she constantly screams at (so much so the police have been called).  She came downstairs and started ranting against the landlord, her mother, the world.  They apparently have another cat, who is 13 years old but who hides, so the landlord has never seen it.  This girl said all their problems would be solved if they'd "just get rid of fatso here," pointing to the older cat.

I looked her in the eye and asked her if she would "get rid" of her daughter if she had another child.  Thankfully, she said no, very indignantly.  I told her that was because that was the responsible thing to do - as they should do for their pets as well.  She flounced off but her mother burst out laughing.  I fear I've made an enemy but I had obviously had it.  I couldn't help them with the kitten, unfortunately.  I already have two foster kittens on my porch and now two other cats.  Geez - it never ends.

I just got back from the vet with the skinny cat.  She weighs about seven pounds and should probably weigh nine or ten.  She had hookworms and an infection (coughing).  She's too thin for shots, so I am going to keep her for a few weeks to get her ready for her vaccinations and spaying.  There is a chance she's pregnant, too, poor thing.

I could use some vibes - a) for her health and b) to find them both responsible homes.

Thanks - I feel better!
 

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I'm glad you have a place to vent. You seem to find so many cats who need help.  I'm also glad you confronted that woman. I hate, hate, hate that term "get rid of it." First, a cat is not an "it." It's a living, breathing being. And what does that mean, "get rid of?" Kill, abandon, drop off at the shelter? It obviously does NOT mean rehome to better caretakers.


Lots and lots of
 for these cats to get healthy and find homes. Many
  for you because you really deserve some.
 

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Oh my gosh, you have the patience of a saint! I think you handled the situation with great dignity.
Oooh what makes me angry (besides those idiot women) is that these situations are part of the reason finding rentals is so hard for those of us with cats.
Rest easy, you have more than done your good deed for the day:) In fact, you are probably covered through at least Christmas! And Thank You for all the good work you do. You have saved so many lives, including two today :)
 
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Pretty soon the bad day will be offset by a magnificent one. So you have something to look forward to.
 
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The one thing I didn't say to the ladies was that the landlord probably already knew about the cats - due to the strong smell of cat pee on the back porch.  I am literally sick to my stomach worrying about that kitten.  It's all black and I fear with Halloween around the corner, they won't find an appropriate home for it.  She said she didn't want to take it to the shelter because they'd kill it (which unfortunately, is true in our area).

My foster kittens are leaving on Tuesday, so I may go back over there and check how they made out.
 

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Ugh, I SO agree. It drives me insane when people tree their cats like "things" or an "it." I've been told before that I should "throw my cats out the window," "get them euthanized," and "feed them to my dogs." And I have gladly sent back a hail storm of insults at them. :D

Best of luck for the cats :)
 
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Update. The kitten is safe on my porch. Luckily, they hadn't done anything with her yet and I have a foster home lined up for her. After Halloween, we'll start looking for a home. (she is solid black, so we're not taking chances).

But the bad news is, the other people abandoned TWO intake male cats. I have one safe but the other one is wandering the neighborhood, looking for his people. The ladies with the kitten have agreed to feed him to keep him around until we can trap him. I am going to have him fixed, then figure out what to do.
 

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Update. The kitten is safe on my porch. Luckily, they hadn't done anything with her yet and I have a foster home lined up for her. After Halloween, we'll start looking for a home. (she is solid black, so we're not taking chances).
But the bad news is, the other people abandoned TWO intake male cats. I have one safe but the other one is wandering the neighborhood, looking for his people. The ladies with the kitten have agreed to feed him to keep him around until we can trap him. I am going to have him fixed, then figure out what to do.
Ugh, what is wrong with people???
 

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I think you're wonderful caring for all those lost kitties, sadly I can't offer one a home being across the water and also having 4 strays in the house already.  In England we consider black cats to be lucky (I wonder how we came to differ so widely) so its never occurred to me that Halloween would pose any threat - only from the fireworks, but they are much more prevalent on Guy Fawlkes night for us.

Anyway, well done and give yourself a pat on the back from me!
 
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I need trapping vibes!  We've set the trap for the other cat - he's a long-haired ginger Tom, beautiful.  One of the neighbor's daughters can pick him up but not for long, so I know he'd semi-friendly.

If he goes in the trap, I plan to have him vet checked and neutered this week.  With his long hair, I won't TNR him.  I have a possible foster home lined up for him, fingers crossed.  Thanks for all your replies.  It's nice to know we're not in this alone.
 
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He did not go into the trap yesterday morning, so I brought it home (just across the street).  I left it set on my patio and saw him looking at the food at around 6 last night.  He did not go in and I unset it at 8:30.

I'll try again tonight.  He's thin, so he probably hadn't eaten since his people (and I use that term loosely) left.  Sooner or later, we'll get him.
 
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GOOD NEWS!  (I hope).  I tried trapping Butters, the big red cat, but he eluded me.  I stopped this morning at the neighbor who had first alerted me to the situation.  I was going to tell her to be on the look out for him.  She told me the owners came back last night and got him!

She didn't talk to them but I asked her to tell them I have their other cat of they return.  If they don't come back, I am going to try to track them down through the landlord.  I will also help them get both boys neutered.
 

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GOOD NEWS!  (I hope).  I tried trapping Butters, the big red cat, but he eluded me.  I stopped this morning at the neighbor who had first alerted me to the situation.  I was going to tell her to be on the look out for him.  She told me the owners came back last night and got him!

She didn't talk to them but I asked her to tell them I have their other cat of they return.  If they don't come back, I am going to try to track them down through the landlord.  I will also help them get both boys neutered.
Oh what good news indeed!  Hopefully they will take care of the cat, but at least you don't have to worry about him.  I just cannot imagine ever abandoning one of my animals.
 

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Ugh!!!!!  I will never understand moving and leaving a pet. to slowly starve to death.    I mean, they take their furniture, appliances, electronics, knick nacks, clothes, momentoes, food,  photos, dust, basically every inanimate object in the house, but leave a living breathing pet that relies on them for food, water, and shelter, and in return gives them unconditional love.  How heartless can someone get?

Thank you so much for taking care of those two boys, and all the other abandoned kitties!
 

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All my vibes are sent. You are an angel surely! Good things happen to good people, like you! 
 
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