We have a stray feral mother cat that has 1 kitten from a litter of 4, the rest died. He is now 5 weeks old, and still nursing some. Mom is totally feral, can't touch her, or get very close. But, she has this kitten in our garage, and I leave the door open so they can come and go as they please. Baby is easily caught and loved on by me now. I want to rescue him and bring him into the house before he turns totally feral, but I don't want to take him too soon. I also am going to trap and spay momma cat as soon as her milk is dried up. When is the soonest I should do this? Can I safely do it at 8 weeks or do I have to wait until 10-12? I'm afraid if I leave him with her too long, I won't be able to tame him. Thanks for your help!