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This is the story of my precious Tom.

I remember this moment very vividly, it was one of the happiest moment in my life. When I was a little girl, by little I mean 3 years old, I was in a horrible accident that left me bed ridden for nearly 6 months. In that time my grandfather came home one day and said he had a surprise for me and told me to close my eyes. I felt something soft on my face and opened my eyes to find the smallest kitten I had ever seen staring back at me. He was a black and white bi-colored kitten. I christened him Tom. He was my best friend and while I love all my furbabies dearly, Tom was the closest to my heart. Over the next few years Tom grew to immense proportions, even larger than my current oldest, Nova who is part Bobcat, but he was a gentle soul. He would lay with me in bed while I read him stories, he would chase my pencil while I did homework, follow me all around the neighborhood and would even be waiting for me at my bus stop everyday to walk me home. Once Tom even chased away a dog that had gotten loose from its chain and tried to bite me when I was younger.

Then one day when he was around 7 years old and I was 10, he didn't come home. We searched and searched but he was nowhere to be found. I cried and cried and then 2 days later he suddenly appeared at our doorstep. At first I was ecstatic to have my beloved friend back, but then I noticed what state he was in. He had no fur on his belly, no fur, skin or claws on any of his feet, his tail was in a similar state and his neck was cut and bleeding. He had drug himself who knows how far to get back home. We rushed him to the vet and luckily my best friend was saved but now he was no longer friendly with anyone but my grandfather and myself. Nearly a month into Toms recovery I heard two teenage boys on my bus laughing and bragging about a cat that they had drug behind a fourwheeler by its neck to their friends. Then one of them pulled out a Polaroid, in the picture was my beloved Tom, mangled and beaten and soaked in what the boys proceeded to laugh at being their own urine. I immediately went to my grandfather and told him about the photo and my grandfather reported them to the police. They both were over 18 and so went to court and were to pay for Toms medical bills and serve community service at the local animal shelter as well as pay a fine for their actions. 

My Tom lived another 3 years in comfort and love and was his old self when he was with me and even continued to keep other feral males out of our yard despite having no claws to defend himself with. He was a tough old thing in the end. Then on his last day Mema picked me up from school explaining that Tom wasn't doing to well. He was on my bed waiting for me, to weak to even lift his head. I laid down with him and he licked my hand and purred before going to sleep forever. 

It's taken me a long time to even talk about Tom, I still get teary eyed when I see black and white cats around the neighborhood and I honestly don't think my heart could handle getting another black and white furbaby. He was my first friend and went through so much with me.
 

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Your words show how very important he was - and is - to you, and as long as the love is there, he's not really gone. RIP, Tom, you haven't been forgotten.
 

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Oh wow! Words escape me after reading that beautiful, yet horrid account of your wonderful friends life. I get so worked up when I hear of abuse to an animal of any kind! How smart of you to follow up as you did with this case! I'm not coming down on you so please don't feel I am when I say this.  I never let any of my cats out side for this very reason. There is evil that hangs at any corner. Please don't take it as a judgment call. I just care for all of our animals and want the best for them all. You loved him and he knew it. No doubt in my mind. It's amazing how he found his way back home. You should be a writer because the way you expressed yourself was just an articulate work of art. I'm so glad your grandpa was looking out after you as he did back then. I can't say thank you enough for your contribution.
 
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Oh wow! Words escape me after reading that beautiful, yet horrid account of your wonderful friends life. I get so worked up when I hear of abuse to an animal of any kind! How smart of you to follow up as you did with this case! I'm not coming down on you so please don't feel I am when I say this.  I never let any of my cats out side for this very reason. There is evil that hangs at any corner. Please don't take it as a judgment call. I just care for all of our animals and want the best for them all. You loved him and he knew it. No doubt in my mind. It's amazing how he found his way back home. You should be a writer because the way you expressed yourself was just an articulate work of art. I'm so glad your grandpa was looking out after you as he did back then. I can't say thank you enough for your contribution.
Right now, our current three fur-babies are indoor/outdoor but ONLY because we have a 7 1/2 foot tall fence that completely surrounds our backyard and it has no gate or holes or gaps of any kind. I went over it with a fine tooth comb when we moved in to be sure of it. When I had Tom we lived in a very small house that didn't even have running water because my grandparents were still paying for the medical treatments that resulted from my accident and so he was allowed to roam outside with me. Had the judge not made those boys pay for Toms vet bills I honestly don't know what my grandparents would have done. I was very young at the time and so this fact did not dawn onto me until I was quite a bit older. I completely understand why people have indoor only cats :) and thank you for your kind words :)
 
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Thank you for such a wonderful story, I pray that Tom is at peace now after such horrible abuse.  Why people think hurting a living creature is acceptable is something I'll never understand. My heart goes out to how much that beautiful cat must have suffered. Thank God for your wonderful grandparents. My only wish is that those boys would have gotten much worse for their crime, at least some jail or detention time. There is something evil about someone who could perform such cruelties to a defenseless animal that trusted them enough to be caught. I completely understand your sorrow, even after many years, time does not erase our sorrow. I'm also so happy he found his way back to you and your love. Please take care, tell your furangel that there are many people mourning him now, he can play and be happy at the Rainbow Bridge until he meets with you again!   
 

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I also share by commiserating with you. I've lost cats but have never had them abused. Thedr are the sort of people who go on to kill people. The judge was too lenient. Don't decide to cut black and white cats out. They also need good homes. I just got me a 2 months old black and white kitten from the street. He is so sweet and funny. My cats are also house cats. I could not bear to know they were outside and not knowing how they were. Mind you at home the cat was in and out. She died s very long time ago age 13 which apparently was quite good in those days. My last one went to rainbow bridge in may age 18-1/2. I'd hoped at least till 19. At the end of august I got whisky and a month ago baby blighty turned up. Keep your chin up. It won't pass but it does get better. Thinking of you.
 

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I also share by commiserating with you. I've lost cats but have never had them abused. Thedr are the sort of people who go on to kill people. The judge was too lenient. Don't decide to cut black and white cats out. They also need good homes. I just got me a 2 months old black and white kitten from the street. He is so sweet and funny. My cats are also house cats. I could not bear to know they were outside and not knowing how they were. Mind you at home the cat was in and out. She died s very long time ago age 13 which apparently was quite good in those days. My last one went to rainbow bridge in may age 18-1/2. I'd hoped at least till 19. At the end of august I got whisky and a month ago baby blighty turned up. Keep your chin up. It won't pass but it does get better. Thinking of you.
When I talk about the cat at home being in and out I was talking about my cat in England
 

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It made me cry reading about Tom.

I'm glad he had a long and happy life with you and I'm glad those horrible men were caught, but I agree with Stewball and Di and Bob. The judge was too lenient. People who torture animals for fun go on to become the kind of people who torture and kill others. I think any one who is caught abusing an animal should be given the same sentence as anyone who is caught abusing a child.

Rest In Peace Tom, it sounds as if you were a special cat and were loved very much by your people.
 

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Normally I'm not the sadistic type, but I would have loved to drag those boys behind a fourwheeler
 disgusting low life *******s! Oi it gets my blood boiling when animals are abused. Thankfully they were caught, but still.....I agree that it should be worse punishment. As others brought up, to cause pain to animals is to later cause pain to children and other adults. There is just something incredibly wrong and ignorant about hurting a innocent creature.

So sorry for the experience. At least altogether, he had a wonderful family.


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This is the story of my precious Tom.

I remember this moment very vividly, it was one of the happiest moment in my life. When I was a little girl, by little I mean 3 years old, I was in a horrible accident that left me bed ridden for nearly 6 months. In that time my grandfather came home one day and said he had a surprise for me and told me to close my eyes. I felt something soft on my face and opened my eyes to find the smallest kitten I had ever seen staring back at me. He was a black and white bi-colored kitten. I christened him Tom. He was my best friend and while I love all my furbabies dearly, Tom was the closest to my heart. Over the next few years Tom grew to immense proportions, even larger than my current oldest, Nova who is part Bobcat, but he was a gentle soul. He would lay with me in bed while I read him stories, he would chase my pencil while I did homework, follow me all around the neighborhood and would even be waiting for me at my bus stop everyday to walk me home. Once Tom even chased away a dog that had gotten loose from its chain and tried to bite me when I was younger.

Then one day when he was around 7 years old and I was 10, he didn't come home. We searched and searched but he was nowhere to be found. I cried and cried and then 2 days later he suddenly appeared at our doorstep. At first I was ecstatic to have my beloved friend back, but then I noticed what state he was in. He had no fur on his belly, no fur, skin or claws on any of his feet, his tail was in a similar state and his neck was cut and bleeding. He had drug himself who knows how far to get back home. We rushed him to the vet and luckily my best friend was saved but now he was no longer friendly with anyone but my grandfather and myself. Nearly a month into Toms recovery I heard two teenage boys on my bus laughing and bragging about a cat that they had drug behind a fourwheeler by its neck to their friends. Then one of them pulled out a Polaroid, in the picture was my beloved Tom, mangled and beaten and soaked in what the boys proceeded to laugh at being their own urine. I immediately went to my grandfather and told him about the photo and my grandfather reported them to the police. They both were over 18 and so went to court and were to pay for Toms medical bills and serve community service at the local animal shelter as well as pay a fine for their actions. 

My Tom lived another 3 years in comfort and love and was his old self when he was with me and even continued to keep other feral males out of our yard despite having no claws to defend himself with. He was a tough old thing in the end. Then on his last day Mema picked me up from school explaining that Tom wasn't doing to well. He was on my bed waiting for me, to weak to even lift his head. I laid down with him and he licked my hand and purred before going to sleep forever. 

It's taken me a long time to even talk about Tom, I still get teary eyed when I see black and white cats around the neighborhood and I honestly don't think my heart could handle getting another black and white furbaby. He was my first friend and went through so much with me.
Why did tom have no claws to defend himself with?
 
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Why did tom have no claws to defend himself with?
When those boys drug him behind the fourwheeler, his nails were permenately ripped from the nail beds when he tried to stop himself from being drug. The few he had left after the abuse were taken off during his surgery to try and treat the damage that had been done.
 

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Omg that is so depressing! I cried. I hope Tom is resting and relaxed wherever he is.
 

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Why did tom have no claws to defend himself with?
I'm sure he trusted humans enough to come right up to them and they tied him up quickly. Sadists like those people prey on the trusting, a feral would never have come up to them. Laws need to be a lot more punishing when an innocent animal ( or child) is abused, they get a slap on the hand and go out to do it again, time and time again.
 
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I know this post is old, but I felt the need to update! In a previous post on this thread I said I didn't think I'd ever be able to look at a Black & White Bi-Color without crying after I lost Tom all those years ago, much less adopt another. Well................. meet Orion!!

He is a 3 week old DSH that was found abandoned in an old house. He does have a minor eye infection but nothing that some TLC and some low grade antibiotics won't cure! My grandmothers co-worker found him and two other kittens (who were from a different litter as they are somewhere between 6-8 weeks old) on Tues of this week. I was told about them on Wed and I picked up Orion and one of the older kittens( who has been adopted out already!) today and took them to the vet for a check up. The third kitten was already adopted out (and headed to the vet) by the time I arrived for Orion and the other kitten. Orion only weighs a scant 4oz but luckily has no fleas, ticks or other parasites! The second kitten, once given a clean bill of health, was given my Mema and Papa as a gift (they had been looking for a kitten) and was dubbed, Magpie.

I NEVER thought I'd be able to handle another Black & White Bi-Color, but as soon as I saw that grubby little face (he wasn't named, cleaned or vetted at this point) I picked him up and he mewled up at me with such pleading that the first thing I did was sigh and hug him to my shoulder, where he proceeded to lick my exposed skin, and I said, "Orion, I'm not your momma, dear." and I knew RIGHT THEN, as the words left my mouth, that yes, I WAS his momma, his human momma. 

 

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That's such a sweet ending to Tom's story, and such a happy beginning to Orion's story too.

I have a cat at the moment who really reminds me of one I lost long ago. Not just her pattern and colouring, but the way she behaves and the way she looks at me sometimes. I often ask her, "Did you come back little girl?" The first cat was with me for just a few months so I feel like I'm getting a second chance to be with her.

Orion is a beautiful kitten. I hope he has a long and happy life with you.
 
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