I am feeling very stressed from my 15 y.o. kitty's chronic illnesses. I request your support.
My kitty Blue developed IBS a year or so ago. It has by now progressed to pancreatitis. The last few days I have been wondering if now we are moving into senility territory, or drug reactions.
Her meds are prednisone for the last year. Recently the vet added weekly B12 shots, twice/day antibiotic, and an every other day anti-emetic. The vet also tried to show me how to give her hydration by i.v. to be done if she quit eating. By the size of that needle, I didn't want to do it, although giving B12 shots is easy (much smaller needle). So I have decided that if she needs i.v. hydration (stops eating for 2 days) I will take her to the vet. Maybe I'll eventually learn how to do it, but it scares me.
Three days ago I was petting her alot because that seems the only activity that she is interested in any more. I guess I forgot about the over-stimulation thing, or the fact that I was petting her tummy. Suddenly, she got agressive, even violent. I backed off some 4 feet and she was so irate/agitated that she came running across the room and bit my ankle! I was so shocked! She had never, ever attacked me. We had a deeply close relationship until the last few weeks. I had always been 150% kind to her (except giving her her meds, which she hated). I was so shocked I cried for an hr. Now I'm so afraid she will lash out at me at any moment.
Although I have had a lot of contemplation over the whole thing and realize she is ill and that aggression is a sign of illness, or at the worst, just frustration over pills being poked and squirted at her every day, it still really hurt that she would attack me viciously.
Meanwhile, I asked myself what all this is teaching me (my religion is reincarnation) and I felt that I am learning about caretaking the deeply ill and I am learning about service, and that is my attitude: I am her caretaker...my job is to take the very best care of her, selflessly. This is my journey right now and my job is to meet the challenge.
Anyhow, today was Saturday and I was home observing her deeply. She did not sleep a wink the whole day, but just stared sadly into space. A couple of times I saw her stretch and roll like a normal cat. She got up and ate and walked around. She purred when petted, but mainly she just sat in her cat bed and stared at me, at nothing, the whole day long. I had her on a pain oral injection today because I am wondering if she is in a lot of pain and maybe the pain meds will help. My impression is it is helping.
She just now walked into the room and licked her paw. So she is not ready to go yet, but she sure seems unhappy, and I even wonder if she is becoming senile because I feel like I have lost the emotional connection we had...it is like she is not really there anymore or we are not connecting anymore. We were once so close, such soul mates.
This is so hard. It is stressing me out.
I'm trying to emotionally remove myself in sort of a clinical manner. I think I am too emotionally involved. I know this is what medical professionals have to do. I'm not having much luck, so I came here for support.
Of course I have started the thoughts about putting her down, but I think we're not there yet. The vet told me she is not dying. But she said that before the senility symptoms appeared. I guess I need to tell the vet the latest developments.
Anyhow, any thoughts or advice anyone has will be appreciated.
My kitty Blue developed IBS a year or so ago. It has by now progressed to pancreatitis. The last few days I have been wondering if now we are moving into senility territory, or drug reactions.
Her meds are prednisone for the last year. Recently the vet added weekly B12 shots, twice/day antibiotic, and an every other day anti-emetic. The vet also tried to show me how to give her hydration by i.v. to be done if she quit eating. By the size of that needle, I didn't want to do it, although giving B12 shots is easy (much smaller needle). So I have decided that if she needs i.v. hydration (stops eating for 2 days) I will take her to the vet. Maybe I'll eventually learn how to do it, but it scares me.
Three days ago I was petting her alot because that seems the only activity that she is interested in any more. I guess I forgot about the over-stimulation thing, or the fact that I was petting her tummy. Suddenly, she got agressive, even violent. I backed off some 4 feet and she was so irate/agitated that she came running across the room and bit my ankle! I was so shocked! She had never, ever attacked me. We had a deeply close relationship until the last few weeks. I had always been 150% kind to her (except giving her her meds, which she hated). I was so shocked I cried for an hr. Now I'm so afraid she will lash out at me at any moment.
Although I have had a lot of contemplation over the whole thing and realize she is ill and that aggression is a sign of illness, or at the worst, just frustration over pills being poked and squirted at her every day, it still really hurt that she would attack me viciously.
Meanwhile, I asked myself what all this is teaching me (my religion is reincarnation) and I felt that I am learning about caretaking the deeply ill and I am learning about service, and that is my attitude: I am her caretaker...my job is to take the very best care of her, selflessly. This is my journey right now and my job is to meet the challenge.
Anyhow, today was Saturday and I was home observing her deeply. She did not sleep a wink the whole day, but just stared sadly into space. A couple of times I saw her stretch and roll like a normal cat. She got up and ate and walked around. She purred when petted, but mainly she just sat in her cat bed and stared at me, at nothing, the whole day long. I had her on a pain oral injection today because I am wondering if she is in a lot of pain and maybe the pain meds will help. My impression is it is helping.
She just now walked into the room and licked her paw. So she is not ready to go yet, but she sure seems unhappy, and I even wonder if she is becoming senile because I feel like I have lost the emotional connection we had...it is like she is not really there anymore or we are not connecting anymore. We were once so close, such soul mates.
This is so hard. It is stressing me out.
I'm trying to emotionally remove myself in sort of a clinical manner. I think I am too emotionally involved. I know this is what medical professionals have to do. I'm not having much luck, so I came here for support.
Of course I have started the thoughts about putting her down, but I think we're not there yet. The vet told me she is not dying. But she said that before the senility symptoms appeared. I guess I need to tell the vet the latest developments.
Anyhow, any thoughts or advice anyone has will be appreciated.
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