I have a rescued male cat, Mittens who is 3 years old and just lost a newborn kitten, I had rescued from a parking lot. We named her Marshmallow and became very attached to her. We are thinking of adopting a new cat. My kids want a kitten about 4 months old and I want an adult cat. I believe an adult cat would get along with Mittens better. Can anyone give their view on this? Thanks.