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I'm new to this site but I ended up here because my female adult cat Whiskers seems to be on the brink of passing on. She was at the vet yesterday and I am awaiting her blood-work back later today. She's been with me for approximately 14 years. I took her in off the street when she was just an adolescent cat.
It seems she has a few issues. It started with her right hind leg. She has the feline equivalent of a torn acl. She's too old to operate on. I think it went from a sprained acl to a torn acl in the last week because she's having great difficulty getting around. She doesn't move much anymore.
The vet also said that her kidneys feel "lumpy". We won't know what that means until the blood-work comes back. Cancer is usually in one kidney so it may be something else. She was dehydrated, so said the vet.
She still does have that spark in her eye. She seems to want to be petted. She's still affectionate with me. But if she's in pain or if she has something terminal then I'm going to have to deal with that. I guess not knowing is the hardest part. But I'll know soon enough.
You see, I lost my mom a little over a year ago. My mom LOVED this cat. And when my mom passed it sort of felt like a part of her was still living through my cat. When I look at my cat I see my mom. There are just a lot of memories there. I already had to say goodbye to my mom once. This feels like saying goodbye all over again.
I guess that's the long and short of it. It's gonna be so hard to say goodbye. I know that when it comes to that, though, the kindest thing I can do for her is let her go. It's just the humane thing to do. To keep her around while I know she is miserable would be selfish. If I want to do the kind thing I have to what's best for her.
Thanks for listening. I thought maybe writing about it might help.
-Tony
It seems she has a few issues. It started with her right hind leg. She has the feline equivalent of a torn acl. She's too old to operate on. I think it went from a sprained acl to a torn acl in the last week because she's having great difficulty getting around. She doesn't move much anymore.
The vet also said that her kidneys feel "lumpy". We won't know what that means until the blood-work comes back. Cancer is usually in one kidney so it may be something else. She was dehydrated, so said the vet.
She still does have that spark in her eye. She seems to want to be petted. She's still affectionate with me. But if she's in pain or if she has something terminal then I'm going to have to deal with that. I guess not knowing is the hardest part. But I'll know soon enough.
You see, I lost my mom a little over a year ago. My mom LOVED this cat. And when my mom passed it sort of felt like a part of her was still living through my cat. When I look at my cat I see my mom. There are just a lot of memories there. I already had to say goodbye to my mom once. This feels like saying goodbye all over again.
I guess that's the long and short of it. It's gonna be so hard to say goodbye. I know that when it comes to that, though, the kindest thing I can do for her is let her go. It's just the humane thing to do. To keep her around while I know she is miserable would be selfish. If I want to do the kind thing I have to what's best for her.
Thanks for listening. I thought maybe writing about it might help.
-Tony